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Guys tell me I'm not the only one

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by RainbowArtNerd, Apr 17, 2017.

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  1. RainbowArtNerd

    RainbowArtNerd
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    I know that some people like the idea of marrying young, but I can't help but feel that it's a little irresponsible in today's world to marry at 20. Waiting even a couple years gives people the chance to grow together as a couple before getting married and possibly have/adopt children. I have seen far too many people think that things will magically be a fairy tale once they get married and it just seems frankly a little out of touch with reality. Don't get me wrong the idea is charming and sometimes works for people, I just think for most people it makes more sense to discover life and each other before the next step. Am I crazy for thinking this?
     
    #1 RainbowArtNerd, Apr 17, 2017
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    The general consensus seems to be that it's a bit young to get married at that age, especially now compared to generations before us. People will do what they will, though. Personally, I think it's fine.
    I feel people, especially under 21, should put a little more thought into adopting at such a young age, but otherwise, as long as they can take care of that child it doesn't bother me a bit.
     
    #2 AriKari, Apr 17, 2017
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