I don't usually do this, but Thought I might as well try. I need help with something relashionship wise. I had a thing for this guy who also had a thing for me. We talked for acouple of months and then we went out on a date. It went great and everything and I also had my first kiss. We talked a little bit after that and then he came out to his mom and she flipped out, and then all of the sudden, Its like any feelings he had for me stopped. We talked for like two minutes, but it didnt feel like we talked enough. Now im upset and still dont know how to handle this or figure out whats going on. I would really like the help.
Our last conversation, if you could call it that, was about two weeks ago, and that lasted 2 minutes. There have been hi's everytime we run into eachother, but thats about it. In our last conversation, something seemed off though, I couldn't place it.
i really don't know how to help, not so good at these things myself to be honest, but i would try to ask him if something was the matter, maybe, i really have no clue with these things sorry
Yea same I'd try asking him. I'm also experiencing a relationship problem but it's not like your, though. I wish you luck since I'm not sure what I can do to help you sorry ^^'
Hey Storm101, It sounds like the negative response he got to Coming Out to his mom pushed him back into the closet. I would bet that he is too scared of his parents and maybe even being disowned or thrown out of his house to do anything that could come back to his parents that might indicate that he's gay. So, he had to basically shut you out of his life. I'm sure this is very hard for you, but all you can do let him deal with this on his own terms. Putting pressure on him in any form right now would be counterproductive. You can either move on with your life and/or you could let him know that you'll be there for him whenever he is ready and he needs your support. That's probably not you want to hear, but I hope it helps you a little...
I would say just relax about it darling, don't let him sense you're keen. If its meant to be he'll come around, play hard to get or act like you don't really mind what happens?? He may be new to everything and freaked out a bit, just give it time. Set the intention of what you want then let go, it's how the Universe works I'm told <3
