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Nobody in my area

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Confusedgal99, May 7, 2017.

  1. Confusedgal99

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    Hey, i live in a relatively small area and pretty much everybody knows every body , but the thing is i dont really know anyone who is opening gay or bisexual so it is pretty much impossible to meet anyone that i dont know already. I amnt openly out at all so it is impossible for me to find someone who may be possibly interested.

    But it's incredibly frustrating as I've never properly been with a girl even though I want a relationship with one. Also I have a boyfriend right now but I don't feel any connection with him at all, even though I don't think I'm completely lesbian because I have liked guys before but who knows. But I know it's horrible but I'm always thinking about merits other girls which is a bit unfair on him so I will breakup with him eventually but I don't know how.

    Any suggestions on how to meet girls who are lesbian or bi?(after I break up with my boyfriend of course) there isn't any lgbt groups or anything like that in my area , but I am going to college in a few months atleast so I will be going to a city where I will surely be able to meet new people. To be honest I will probably have to wait until then because even if I was to meet a girl in my area it would be talked about and I am not ready for that yet.
    Anyway thanks for reading!

    ---------- Post added 6th May 2017 at 11:43 PM ----------

    Meant to say meeting not merits sorry typo !
     
  2. Najlen

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    Yeah, it sounds like it would be best to just wait until you move if you aren't ready to be out yet. If you want people in your new area, LGBT+ groups are a good idea, most colleges have one now.
     
  3. Worker Bee

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    Where will you be going to college? Does the city have any lgbt+ links?
     
  4. BostonStranger

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    It does indeed sound like the best thing you can do right now is wait until you go to college. It's definitely worth it to look for LGBT+ groups in the area. Who knows, you might even find yourself an LGBT+ guide to show you around :slight_smile: