How do i control my jealousy? I'm so jealous whenever he talks,play,etc. with others... Its like I'm becoming an attention whore from him.... I want to control this... Any advice guys..? :icon_sad:
Really, you might always feel jelous, but how you control it is you wise your rational mind, and always think about it and try not to be upset. Tell yourself what you think should be okay, and what shouldn't and stick to those boundaries no matter how you truly feel. Jelousy is a hard thing to shake, so it's best to just ignore it when it really isn't important.
It is really insecurity. As you become more secure in the relationship you should be less jealous. Stuck
my partner used to get jealous a lot at first, but after we got to know each other more and trust each other he became way less jealous. he still gets bit jealous, i can tell even if he doesn't say anything. I admit that i sometimes like it,it shows that he cares and i have to say that sometimes I get jealous too
Heh, I am also an Asian like you. Although I'm only in middle school. I never get jealous, for I know friends we make in school will eventually lose contact with us, for they are only together under the influence of conformity. If individuality was present, nobody in this world would be the same. So don't be jealous, he is only a figure of lust and personability to those who don't look deeper. Because if his soul was transferred to an obese body today, he would no longer have any friends. Be yourself, and let those who appeal to your personality, come to you. Or the other way around.