Already, thank you for reading this post. It's the first time I post on this website and I'm sure you'll all be of great help. Anyway, me and this guy, who I shall refer to as Simon, are both fourteen and in recent months, I've been getting more and more attracted to him every time I see him, so much so that I fantasize about him during classes and in bed... I've known him for 3 years but I just started noticing him recently, because in the school's changing rooms he keeps on jokingly thrusting his crotch right in front of me in his underwear, and playing tons of little gay games, as a joke of course, with me (once when he did that crotch thing to me, I nearly lost control... :dry So after seeing all this, I was sure that he was gay and I was working up the courage of asking him out, but he's attracted to girls! Every time I see him he's always talking about straight porn, pussies and whatnot... Basically, what I'm trying to say is, what should I do? I know there's no hope I go out with a straight guy but perhaps he's in the closet? BTW: I'm still in closet apart for a couple of friends and Simon is pretty handsome and buff, his only flaw is his acne ;D
I think he is straight and doesn't realize that you feel this way. Or he could be gay and you should make a move back and see where is goes
Is he a good friend? Can you come out to him? That would be my recommendation, for a next step, if it would be safe to do so.
Thanks for the replies! I think I'll come out to some closer friends beforehand but he'll soon know. My school isn't particularly homophobic even though I seem to be the only gay guy in 900 students so it's safe. Again, thank you for the replies and feel free to post some more advice!
Tbh, he's not gay, sorry I'm not trying to be mean or anything but I've been in the same situation and you don't want to hurt yourself in the end.
