Noooo idea what forum to actually put this is.. but is it weird that I only really feel attracted to females who I know are into other women? Like, I can look at women and think they're attractive, but I tend to only feel really attracted to women who I know are gay. I'm a bit of a realist.
Seems pretty normal to me! Most of the women I've had crushes on have been gay or bi. Maybe my gaydar is trying to save me the disappointment of falling for a straight girl. Too bad it can't tell me who's single!
There have been a few threads with similar questions. The general consensus seems to be: yupp, totally normal. I think it's sort of a self-preservation thing to prevent ourselves from falling for straight girls.
