ok so you come out to your friends and often they have a lot of questions. the one i get the most is "how do lesbians have sex?" i want to know how to answer this? and why do people always want to know?
People are always curious about things they don't know, the more honestly you answer all their questions the more they will understand what you feel, its also good they feel comfortable to ask you all these things it means they totally accept it as just another part of you, but I know what you mean sex ed lessons have never and will never be a fun conversation
I would tell them to look up "tribadism" on wikipedia. Or else I'd say it just wasn't really something I was comfortable talking about.
I get asked this question a lot, especially by creepy older dudes. >___> Nothing wrong with being curious, but c'mon. I usually just say, "we/they manage " and leave it at that.
How do lesbians have sex? Let me count the ways.:icon_bigg there are any number of ways including fingers, toes, fists, tongues, tribbing, veggies, whipped cream chocolate syrup, and strawberries or toys. If these are women/girls asking just say, "I need to demonstrate." If it is a straight guy tell them to fuck off. They won't ask again or you may get laid. :eek: They ask because they are nosy. :roflmao:
Ive heard gay and straight guys talk about this before. I think its a pretty silly (stupid) question, as if dicks are the only things that make sex "sex". I mean I've never had sex with a woman, but its not too hard for me to imagine what lesbians get up to.
Seriously, though, the specifics are none of their business. Explain that lesbians can do anything that straight people can do sexually that doesn't involve a penis, and if the couple wants to include a dildo, they can do anything that does involve a penis, too.