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how to say NO

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Iceman110295, Mar 24, 2013.

  1. Iceman110295

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    Me and this girls been friends since I moved but people been saying that were going out and we really not at all. But these past days she is try to grab my hand and one time she kiss me on the check. Both times I let it slide but I think she want use to go out with each and I’m not so good with tell girls no. two week ago told girl not when she ask me on a date she diss me in front of everyone
    I would totally go out with her if I was straight but I’m not.
    So I guess my question is how to tell a chick no?
     
  2. myheartincheck

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    Ok practice with me.

    "Wanna go out with me?"
    (hint: the answer is a two letter word) :wink:
     
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    no thanks dont work ill still get punch
     
  4. fuzzywuzzy

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    Da! Do other languages count? Am I doing it right?

    ...never mind. Just tell her that you can't. If she asks you why, you can always say that it's complicated. The other way is to tell her that you just want to be friends with her and you don't want to ruin your friendship. That might sting a bit but it's probably the only way to reject her without coming out. You can also come out to her if you think you can trust her.
     
    #4 fuzzywuzzy, Mar 24, 2013
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