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this one girl

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by nyc, Mar 26, 2013.

  1. nyc

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    so you may know i had a crush on my friend, pushed her away and now i regret it well, were becoming friends again, and we keep talking and sending pictures on snapchat. im just scared im going to either say somthing and scare her away or get scared and push her away again
     
  2. TwoMethod

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    Is your friend a lesbian or bisexual? What kind of pictures have you been sending?

    And the fact that you're scared you'll say something is a good sign: that means that you've got yourself in check and will probably not say anything at all!
     
  3. elandra

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    what the heck?
    why is everyone telling this poster to walk on eggshells,
    and to hide her feelings from the one she loves?
    i thought this was a gay site where one should be proud of who you are and not hide it....
    who knows maybe the friend feels the same but is too scared to tell the OP,
    SOMEONE needs to make the first move here when there is obvious sexual tension in the relationship,
    this tension of wanting more than just being friends will hold them both back from fully experiencing the full potential of this relationship,
    meaning they have to come out to each other to really enjoy the friendship on a deeper level,
    if the sexual tension is not faced then the relationship may suffer more,
    since friends cannot live in shame of each other.
     
    #3 elandra, Mar 28, 2013
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    Um, have you posted in the wrong thread?