I hope you see this when you're sober. Maybe it'll further your resolve to tell her when you're sober? You don't need liquid courage to do it =)
First of all never text anyone saying that your falling for them, trust me, It never ends well. Second are you sure your falling for her? I mean you were drunk and all.
What happened to taking chances? Everyone telling OP no do not do it shows fear. and what if the OP fell for her long before getting drunk? If OP really likes the girl she must follow her heart, she has nothing to lose if that person is say single and not attached to someone else. after all she can see this as an opportunity to get to know herself better through the experience of taking chances... brave is the heart that tries and sad is the heart that never acts out of fear of self and what others might think... I mean why should anyone live in shame of themselves?
It's nothing to do with hiding. It's to do with speaking while drunk. There's all kinds of trouble that can arise from doing that. Words seem twisted when under influence. What is actually harmless questioning can sound hurtful to the less than sober mind and that just starts a defensive battle that usually goes downhill from there. Alcohol may make it easier to speak up, but being sober you are more likely to respond better to any questions or statements/answers. I do hope you talk to the girl, NYC, and that it goes spectacularly. Or did go that way if you have all ready spoken to her since posting this.
I didn't tell her, I just sent her cute messages all night, I've liked her for a long time but don't have confidence to do anything about when I'm drunk I feel I can tell her how i feel confidently, thankyou guys anyway
I don't think that's great advice. Everyone else seems to think honesty is a good thing and that OP should tell her, but not while drunk. Also OP, good for you - I'm sure she enjoyed those texts and likes you even more. Surprisingly drunken texting turned out well for once!
