Out to some Classmates while having a crush

Well, it's been about a month since I came out to my acting class. It happened during lunch when a couple of us (guys and girls) were talking about who were crushing on. It got to me but I didn't want to say because my crush is in our class. So after an hour I wrote his name down and they were like "Oh... Ok." Two girls were like "Aww, that's cute."

I came out to some other students in the class through casual conversation. Now 1/3 of the class knows but only half of them know who I'm crushing on and it's weird. My female friends in and out of the class are telling me to talk/befriend my crush but I don't know if he's gay. I have a "feeling" but that doesn't count; the funny thing is that one of my classmates thinks he could be bi or gay and its frustrating her.

Anyway, I just felt like telling my story in hopes of anyone relating to it. I have class again on Monday and I'm hoping I can talk to my crush with more than 30 sec. conversations.

 

Yeah, it wouldn't hurt. It just that he doesn't really talk (voluntarily) except to a few people so I get a little shy around him :icon_redf

 

@Zmajcek

I know what you mean. It's just that I practically a hopeless romantic and it doesn't that I've never dated before. So, it's hard trying not to crush on a guy I find attractive... I don't know he's kind to me and seems so introverted he's shy. But I've noticed my crush on him isn't as big as it was a few weeks ago.

Besides, I didn't get to talk to him since he didn't come back from his break. Some of my female friends in the class advised me to talk to him. I guess because I'm a little shy and he's introverted; the girls aren't either of these things so he doesn't talk to them unless when partnered up.

 

Yeah, I think it's possible. My crush on him has really died down, even my friends in the class don't make inside jokes about me liking him. I hope he's not to introverted when I talk to him because so far I've chit chatted with him a few times whereas only three other guys talk to him. Maybe he won't seem closed off because of this.

 

During our class break, I waved at my crush and he smiled back (cute) afterwards I asked him something and didn't hear me. I'm gonna ask him about his monologue but I'm stiill not confident in approaching him when he's alone; He's usually standing alone or sitting alone and I don't want bother him... Any advice?

 

Update...

Toward the end of the semester, I briefly chatted with him on Facebook. Now that the semester ended, I've kept in contact with him and our conversations have gotten deeper. We talked about college and I told him that my female friend (who's very similar to me) likes; it turns out that he likes her too. I was a bit disappointed but I've been encouraging both of them to contact one another.

In one of our conversations, I told him I was gay and he was very supportive and nice. I told him that my options of dating is very limited and he told me that it makes my first date that much special. I guess we're becoming close as friends.