I posted yesterday about this guy but I'm still wondering about him... I know there is no way of truly knowing if someone is gay unless they tell you or unless they actually visibly like guys but surely there are telltale signs? I'm going to list a few things that make me thing he could be bisexual or gay... - He accepted my bisexuality without any care (this is a good thing for me but it just seems a bit weird because guys are usually more distant...) - Ever since I've came out as bi, we've spent more time together (I'm partly responsible...) - He does stereotypical gay things like: flipping his hair, talking in a gay voice (as a joke), acting gay and things like that. - We call each other 'honey', I know it sounds weird but me and him joke around and we're honeys for each other... I don't know how else to explain lol. - He has said about his 'gay side' before. - He texts me a lot and we have long phone conversations. - We go out a lot. - We played truth or dare together and he seemed to be interested in doing certain things that I deem to be kind of 'gay'. - He's said once that it wouldn't surprise him if he was gay in the future due to a lot of his family being gay. - Sometimes he randomly brings up my bisexuality and asks if I am sexually attracted to guys and stuff... - He was up for sexting a random guy on Kik with me... seems a bit weird. Now, that seems pretty bad but these are reasons he is probably not gay: - He has had crushes on a few girls and has had one girlfriend but I seem more into girls than him... - He watches straight porn, I've seen his phone browser history :roflmao: - I've teased him about being gay and he promised me that he is straight. - He seems shy around girls he likes. - He has kissed a girl in front of me and has also felt up a girl. Right, those are reasons. I kind of suspect he could be bisexual, I am exactly like him and I'm bisexual. I've done more with girls than he has and yet I am bisexual... ... I really don't know what to think. I want to hope he is bisexual or gay but I'm guessing he isn't, yet. I just want people's opinions, I'm probably wasting my time here but I still think some opinions would be good. I'm also thinking about just asking him if he would ever consider doing things with a guy but I'm not gonna rush into that stuff! Thanks for reading.
Find the right moment and ask him. He may not be gay at all, or he maybe completely gay, there's no way of telling from just small signs. (Ok, I have to admit, I used to-and still-talk in a gay voice as a joke in front of friends, but I did that before I realised I was bi to begin with, so it's not exactly a Yes-No sign) Also, you can never be sure of someone's sexuality by the sort of porn they watch. I only have 2 gay friends, the first one I met was very..uhh..well he was...let's just say he was very open about sex and stuff. And well, he's 100% gay, but mostly watches straight porn. I suggest you ask before jumping to any conclusions.
Yeah, we both do the gay voice... but I am bisexual, haha. I should probably ask him :L urghhh, that's so hard though Thanks for the reply
No build up, don't sound dramatic, try to sound as casual as possible. Almost like a joke, but if he laughs tell him you're serious. Make sure you're playing a game and he's distracted by something. Then just say 'Hey, are you gay or bi or what?' I do wish you the best of luck. But WHATEVER you do, NEVER bring up that porn thing you found on his phone. EVER. If he's anything like me he'll try to stab you with the nearest pencil.
Alright, I should try that next time we're round his or mine... still it might be so awkward. Oh well, you do only live one (I hate that phrase but it's true!) Hahahaha, I don't intend to. Though, to be honest, I never really checked what porn it was. It was pornhub so it could've been anything... ah!
