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Helping shy Closet Friend find other friends

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Masterpeace, Apr 6, 2013.

  1. Masterpeace

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    Long story short. My best friend came out to me in a shaky manner. He made up a story about being engaged to a much older man his age. He didn't say he was 'gay' but the fact that he's going to marry someone at such a young age terrified me. Knowing him since high school, he was definitely lying about it and was just coming out to me :eusa_doh:

    On our third conversation since he came out, he began bringing up topics about gay people and as well as performing sexual acts with his 'imaginary' fiance . I got even more angry with him when he told me that I will be single for the rest of my life because I don't find what he talks about interesting :***:

    ...Now for the actual problem, he doesn't have any other friends but me. I ask him if he wants to hang out in the city, mall or go clubbing but he refuses. I feel that he's either very insecure or depressed. I want him to know that I still want to be his best friend but I can't always be there for him that's why I really want him to find other friends who he can relate to and talk about his own interests. I don't want him to be lonely :help:

    He's into very feminine things. Home decorating, facial products, jewelry, drama and Cher.