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How many girlfriends/boyfriends have you had in the past?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by CptnBeefheart, Apr 8, 2013.

  1. CptnBeefheart

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    I'm a real curious george today.
     
  2. Dublin Boy

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    As a Closeted Gay Guy, too many Girls, as a Gay Guy coming out, no Boyfriends Yet :icon_sad:
     
  3. The Dude

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    Does a girlfriend in 8th grade who I went nowhere with count? If so, then one.
     
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    No boyfriends yet, hoping for one soon-ish! And in the closet I've only dated two girls for any substantial amount of time, and I'm still close with them and I'll probably come out to one sometime soon :slight_smile:
     
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    No boyfriends, only a couple of awkward/regrettable sexual experiences with guys...
    I had a girlfriend when I was 11 but I don't think that counts - she asked me out then dumped me a week later.
     
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    I had one girlfriend in 5th grade, we went on one "date"(I invited her to share my computer time with me. Yeah I knew what the ladies want:grin:), and it lasted a week. So that probably doesn't count.

    Other than that no girlfriends or boyfriends for me, though there were many times I could of got a gf as a cover, but I didn't. So yeah, forever alone. :\
     
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    Hahahahahaha. 10.... minus 10.

    There you go!
     
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    Several girlfriends while I was in the closet LOL, but no boyfriends :/
     
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    No boyfriends, no girlfriends, and hardly any regular friends. :icon_sad:
     
  10. davmnd

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    No boyfriends nor girlfriends, nor anything that looked anyway near that. I hope to get a little bit more of luck from now on.
     
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    I had a boyfriend when I was 13, but I broke up with him because he was immature. I was involved with a 17-year-old girl when I was 14, but we never made it an official relationship (first person I fell in love with). I had a girlfriend when I was 15, who I broke up with 3 or 4 times because she was a liar and a cheater. I was involved with another girl shortly after I broke it off with the cheating one. We never made it official because I couldn't develop feelings for her, so I ended it. When I was 16 was in a relationship with a 24-year-old woman. She broke up with me twice, and it was the hardest break-up I've ever experienced. We remained involved until I turned 19, and then we finally stopped talking when I was 20. The 2nd time she broke up with me was because she started going back to church, and her faith made her feel too guilty to remain in a relationship with me.

    Out of all of those relationships, I've only been in love twice.
     
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    I've had one girl friend for a month hand a half 4 years ago...yea...
     
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    I had a girlfriend when I was about 12-13 ish years old. She had been a close friend of mine for 3 years at the time, and well. She wanted to be my boyfriend, but i didn't feel anything for her (I didn't "know" I was gay at this time) so I tried to not become her boyfriend. But soon enough it happened and we were together for a week. Nothing really happened except a little kissing, then she broke up with me. I've had so many chances to have relationships, but I never felt anything back to the girls who liked me (obvious why now), so I've not been in a relationship since then. Right now, having a relationship is about all I want. Forever alone :tears:
     
  14. Unsurevirgin

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    i had a gf for a week lol , only 1 bf for 1 yr lol im not dating anytime soon. just getting myself back on track hopefully having a life on my own. :slight_smile: and then l`ll date whoever nice ,fun,charming and respectful comes along the way :slight_smile:
     
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    No boy or girlfriends. :/
    I've been asked out by guys, but obviously never taken them up on the offer because that would be cruel. xD
    I'm currently stuck in this flirtationship with my crush (who's a chick ;3), but I have no idea where it's going and I guess it doesn't count. x3
     
  16. I've had two 'real' girlfriends that I've genuinely loved and about ten girlfriends that lasted a month or two or less.

    I've had no boyfriends, yet. :frowning2:
     
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    I've dated a few people but am only in my first real relationship.
     
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    Never had any boyfriends or girlfriends. Knowing me I never will.
     
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    Relationships I would count, just the one :slight_smile:
     
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    2 multi-yr living together relationships, 1 yr plus dating relationship, 2 shorter dating relationships, 1 FWB situation that was fun while it lasted, 1 brief, intense thing that might have been so much more if circumstances had been slightly different. Plus some hook ups mixed in between.

    I'd definitely call the first three boyfriends (although I usually call the last one my partner and he does the same). I thought of one of the shorter dating relationships as being my boyfriend at the time but not so much when compared with the other three that came later.

    Todd