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Always The Bridesmaid, Never The Bride (Theoretically Speaking!)

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by BoiGeorge, Apr 10, 2013.

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  1. BoiGeorge

    BoiGeorge Guest

    What I mean by the title is that out of all my friends, I'm always the only one who is constantly single! I dont know whats wrong with me?! Id say that I'm a nice person, I think I'm pretty good looking... So why am I still single? I'm the person that everyone wants to unload their problems onto and talk to, but no one wants to date me. I feel like I play the role of shrink in a lot of my friends lives! XD I have a lot of friends and I'm quite popular at school, but it seems like all I am is a friend to everyone. Never anything more. It makes me feel lonely and weird. Like whats wrong with me? Why doesnt anyone love me?
     
    #1 BoiGeorge, Apr 10, 2013
  2. Yui

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    I hear ya - welcome to the club :lol:

    ALL of my friends are in relationships - I am the only who isn't...

    It doesn't have to be a relationship for me right now but I want someone to hug and give me back rubs and stuff. It doesn't even have to be sex. Someone to cuddle with - I need oxytocine sooo bad :lol:

    And a thing thats bothering me SO much: All the guys I know randomly hug and cuddle my girl friends, kiss them on the cheek, give them back rubs (everything I want :tears: ) etc. but they never do that with me... Why??? One told me he didn't dare touch me...WTF??? Am I that feisty looking or what? I'm nice, I always help other people, making me angry takes forever, people say I'm pretty, I always use perfume and the new one I bought smells insanely good, I'm the most girly one out of all my friends (and that usually makes guys feel protective), yada yada yada...Whats up with that? Seriously - sooo annoying... Makes me wanna go on a guys are stupid rant :lol:

    But yeah - for some reason people just don't see me that way... Though I do get hit on by strangers, so it seems to be something one can only notice after knowing me for some time :confused: Don't have much advice to offer since I can't figure it out as well :dry:

    Besides - yup, you are pretty :slight_smile:
     
    #2 Yui, Apr 10, 2013
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