So...we broke up back in November, I think. And it was kinda rough...some of you may remember me posting other things about it. Lately, she started texting me. Every day. "What are you doing Friday?" "Let's hang out" "I started crying in class because I feel so alone", shit like that. I've previously told her I'm not really comfortable with the idea of hanging out, our relationship was shit and I don't wanna get sucked back into it, plus I don't even want to date a woman right now. What do I do?!:bang:
does she know that your into dudes? bro, what i do when i have a pycho ex is meet up with her for coffee and then explain to her why i cant hang out with her and she normally gets it...
No, she doesn't know and I don't intend to tell her. Last time I met up with an ex she started bawling and saying she loved me and I'm just not doing that again.
Block her number? Nobody needs to hear that kind of stuff coming from their ex, that's just unnecessary stress.
It may sound a little harsh, but I think you need to be a blunt with her. Something along the lines of how your relationship is in the past and you don't think that hanging out with her would be a good idea. Not something that would seriously hurt her feelings, but strong enough that she gets the message
You're better off just ignoring her. If you try to explain, she'll say that she'll change and make other various excuses. If you don't want to tell her the truth, which would actually shut her up, then you're better off just not replying/answering her or any of her friends at all.
Aww I'm glad you're feeling better about it all Yea, she doesn't need to be in your life if she has such a negative effect. Make sure to keep your distance. If she doesn't stop the first time you tell her you're not comfortable or just don't want to, you may have to get a bit more firm with her. Either way, make it clear that you just don't want to hang out or be with her. She needs to respect that.
