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starting to get feelings for a friend

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by josh9623, Apr 12, 2013.

  1. josh9623

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    ok so i've know this guy for a while and while we aren't super close we are friends and he is openly and outwardly gay so at least i don't have to worry about that but i think he has a boyfriend already so that kinda keeps me away and i'm not sure if he knows i'm gay (obviously he shouldn't have a problem with it) but i don't want to get emotionally invested in him at this point. if he was single it might be different but as far as i know he's not. so any tips on how i can keep this from developing further or am i just doomed to endure it? i can't really avoid him as we have class together and i wouldn't want to make it obvious.
     
  2. BubbleGum

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    Try talking to him about his boyfriend. Not like "so... do you have a boyfriend :wink::icon_redf:" but in a nicer/calmer way... you know what I'm saying, right? It will help you "cool down" :slight_smile:

    When ones crushes start swooning over their lovers, your unconsciousness realizes and accepts that this person does not want you, normally...

    You should give it a try :slight_smile:
     
  3. josh9623

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    ok, I might give it a go, I should see him tomorrow.