I recently found out my biggest crush was gay, too, but now what? I really want him, but don't know hom. Help please!
Woohoo! Ok, now you have to figure out how to get to know him. Do you have any friends in common, maybe you could organize a group outing or activity?
Like meeeeee .... He's brave. My confidence sort of turned into dangerous arrogance which drove away my friends (
So you're Facebook friends? And he recently came out on FB? If so send him a FB message about how awesome and brave he is for coming all the way out like that and ask if you can take him out for a celebratory ice cream/coffee/drink (depending on how y'all are of course)
I have congratulatd him, but hes also 2 years my junior and taking him out would be too obvious. ---------- Post added 6th May 2013 at 03:48 PM ---------- I have congratulated him, but hes 2 years my junior and taking him out would be too obvious.
Ok, so if you didn't have a crush on him and just wanted to become friends how do you think you'd go about it?
I don't know, I don't really have friends. ---------- Post added 6th May 2013 at 03:56 PM ---------- I don't. I dont really have friends...
Does he know you're gay? Is there a gay coffee shop, or pride event coming up that you could ask him to go to with you? Like as back up? Or, since you both are inti theater, a LGBT centric play? ---------- Post added 6th May 2013 at 08:10 PM ---------- Actually, if he knows you're gay you could just ask him to hang out by telling him you really would like to have a gay friend.
Ask him to hang out! If there isn't any community centers in your area, you both could use the support of another gay person! Try the "I need a gay friend" approach!
I'd just strike up a conversation with him. "Hey what do you think about that drama group? You excited, nervous?" See where that takes you.
