I have this friend, let's name him jem, and I find his personality amazing but he looks aweful. His mum is a lesbian so he's not a homophobe but he's scared that I might come on to him( that worry happend when I told him I was gay)and I have "come on" to him but he doesn't know. He spoke to me for the first time in a month today but it was difficult for me to say anything at all to him. Please tell me what to do. Ps he is straight. Thx in advanced