Am I crazy ?

I don't think you're crazy. I believe several people out there have probably done the same thing...of course in different situation.

I'm not really good with this kind of situation, because I've never been in a relationship before. ^^; Maybe someone else has something better to say.

 

No, you're not crazy. My longest relationship probably lasted 3 days and they were with women so im not the best relationship advice person. But i do think that coming on this website and talking really helps to cool down ur nerves...at least it does for me... but yea, its always nice to have someone to talk to and confide in.

 

When was the fight? i bet he just wants some space. especially if the two of u recently broke up. i think your texting him and want to text him because he was ur first bf. u feel a special bond with him cause he was ur first bf. did he say he still wants to try and remain friends?

 

You asked me for the advice of an older woman, so I'm going to tell you exactly what I'd tell someone my own age.

If you like this person sayine you're "unstable" and "feel dead inside" is a cop out. If there's an issue that makes having a relationship hard, you don't throw the relationship away. You face the issue head on. Deal with whatever is making you feel unstable and dead inside. Ask your parents if you can see a therapist. Spend some time thinking and journaling and figure out WHY you feel the way you do and what can be done to fix it.

Pushing people away doesn't help you or them. If you want to be with this guy then buck up and do the work to get yourself in a mental and emotional place where you CAN BE.

Telling him you have too many issues and continuing to talk, want, care for him will just create needless drama and pain. That's wasted time and energy better spent on becoming a whole, healthy, happy person.

 

No you are not crazy. You are just missing him. Do you love him? if yes, then why'd you break up in the first place? If your answer would be that you feel unstable, I think every person in a relationship goes through this, although I'll admit that I've never into in any kind of intimate relationship with someone before, what you both have to do is fight the problemS together and know that both of you will stand by each other's side because breaking up with someone just because you have a lot of problems will create unnecessary drama and add more problems to your life than the problems that you already have.

So, if you love him and he loves you back and both of you want to get back together, then go for it. Don't let anything hinder you from love. Love is not something that we postpone, it comes to us in unexpected times. remember that there are a lot of people in there that might attract him.

-I hope I am getting the message that you were trying to convey here. If not, then please disregard this post.

 

Is it him who always make the first move of texting you or is the action, a mutual one?
Did you text him first today(?) and did not reply back? If not, then maybe he just feels shy of texting you.

Or maybe he is really just busy or tired today that he forgot to text you.

Or maybe he is attending some event.

There's a whole lot of possibilities though.

Anyways, did you mean, you broke up with him because he: (1) look bad, (2) talk bad and (3) you feel bad about him?

 

Oh my. That must have hurt his ego IMO. Maybe he got bored of you too or something like that. Remember that it's not everyday, everyone is going to bow down at your feet. You get what you give!(Haha! kidding )

Anyways, can you expound the statement about feeling bad about him?

 

I see. Maybe you could try sending him a message saying that you feel isolated with him lately. Or maybe if you have bombarded him with messages lately, wait for his reply or look if he is online on facebook, then message him.

 

It's almost June. Maybe he's just busy with school and stuffs. Patience dear.

 

Hey thanks for asking me to answer!

I do think its normal to miss a person thats important to you, even if you guys broke up, im sure theres still somethin there, it really feels different but absolutely natural, and yeah like someone said maybe he just didnt receive your texts

All the best!!