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Could Demisexual /str8 girls have crushes ?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Unsurevirgin, May 25, 2013.

  1. Unsurevirgin

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    Okay so I've been noticing women lol but only women like Anna Kendrick ,Brittany snow and mila kunis. That's it so could we have crushes on ppl different from us ?
     
  2. Ettina

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    I don't think demisexuals have crushes. From what I heard, a demisexual feels like they're asexual until they start forming an emotional bond with someone. And I know I (asexual) don't have crushes.

    However, there's a feeling I've had, which is a lot like a crush except with no sexual attraction component. It's like this fascination with a certain person, combined with noticing all sorts of physical details I like about them (even if I would ordinarily consider those traits unattractive), and a strong urge to get to know them better. I can get this feeling with a person of any age, though more often with children. I've also had this feeling with pets as well. It takes a bit of getting to know them for this to develop, but only to acquaintance level rather than friend level (but if I can help it I form a friendship with them once this feeling develops).
     
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    The asexual crush is known as a squish I believe.