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So my ex wants me to be his gf again (advice plz ! Much needed advice to a newbie !!

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Unsurevirgin, Jun 3, 2013.

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  1. Unsurevirgin

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    He said its not bc of sex , ive been thinking about this for a long time. u are always there for me when i need u. u stay by my side nd help me all the time. nd at times we might fight but u make me incredibly happy. i love u so much nd im ready to put what happened behind us nd try again bc i dont feel like letting u slip away me . I've been thinking about it for a long time I just wanted to be ready to take that step again . So I've been thinking about getting back with him but I just don't know what to say . Should I move on and be friends with him or get back together ? He doesn't do weed and drugs and alcohol anymore . I need to older ppls experience or if u dated long enough I need experience bc I'm new to dating .
     
    #1 Unsurevirgin, Jun 3, 2013
  2. mattjm

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    Re: So my ex wants me to be his gf again (advice plz ! Much needed advice to a newbie

    Well I'm pretty good at helping out my friends with their hectic relationships and managing my own but if you want my advice i would get back together with him and if you find that you care for/about him then you two should be together hope this helps.
     
    #2 mattjm, Jun 3, 2013
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    Re: So my ex wants me to be his gf again (advice plz ! Much needed advice to a newbie

    I'd need a lot more information before I can really give any true advice, but I'll point out where I feel might be a couple red flags.

    * He seems a bit dismissive about the fact that you fight "at times".

    * I don't get much sense that you REALLY miss him or want to get back together with him. "He's not using anymore" is perhaps a good stpe, but him (ab)using the make-or-break thing for you? Are you really interested in getting back with HIM? Or just interested in no-longer-being-alone?

    Lex
     
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  4. Unsurevirgin

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    Re: So my ex wants me to be his gf again (advice plz ! Much needed advice to a newbie

    It's both but I just I don't know what I want so I said let's wait and be friends until its clear to me .
     
    #4 Unsurevirgin, Jun 3, 2013
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