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Dating older same sex

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by ganley, Jun 5, 2013.

  1. ganley

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    I don't want to offend anyone, if anyone finds this offensive I apologies!!

    So my question... I have only been with women either my age or younger & none of those relationships have been successful. I find their lack of respect for other people disappointing & inability to speak up about how they Feel. They just disappear & then rock up again all over someone else, don't even tell me it's over & expect me to be ok with it all! Anyway... I'm starting to become attracted to older women for the 1st time ever ( think Capt. Katherine Janeway from Star Trek Voyager) but I have no idea were to even start to meet older bisexual women considering I'm still trying to get use to the fact I'm not 18 anymore (I'm 29) & I don't live a mature lifestyle or even behave professional (other then at work obviously). I would love ANY advice from older women what do u like in a partner, how would you like to be asked out, where do you go to be asked out? Or at the very least make friends?!?

    Thanks!
     
  2. Bobbybobby99

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    My quick comment, they could be gay women too :grin:
     
  3. Rose27

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    I'm 45 and the words "mature lifestyle" make me cringe! Sounds like a senior citizen community ad. :slight_smile: You will figure it out!

    Bobby-Your just toooo funny! -"Mama" Rose (*hug*)
     
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    I'm the same way. I cannot date someone younger, unless it's a few months. My age preference is 21-45. Older women are just so attractive. :wink: And don't get me started on taller women. XD
     
  5. ganley

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    "Mature lifestyle" really does sound like a retirement village add lol! I guess I don't know how to meet women who don't go out every weekend & get drunk... I have no interest in that lifestyle anymore. I'd rather walk in the beach or sit around the table & chat about our day. I feel so awkward! And yes it could be a straight gay, no wait only gay & not just bisexual woman too. How do you tell if someone is gay anyway! I mean I can't just go around to every woman I like & say hey are you gay by any chance & do you want to go out on a date? Ok I'm going to sleep I have embarrassed myself enough...