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I like an MTF…

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Krilky, Jun 16, 2013.

  1. Krilky

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    Usually gay guys are sad because they fall in love with straight guys, but that would be far too ordinary for me!
    We had a student who transferred to our school last year as a sophomore. I didn't take much notice then because we didn't share classes. But this year I we shared some classes and I pretty much fell in love with him. He's smart, athletic, funny, nice, and good-looking. And he's gay! He told me and two others in track practice one day! I'm not out to him because I've never been alone with him after then, and I didn't want to steal the spotlight from him at practice and I don't want to tell many other people.
    One thing, though, is that he's super effeminate. You think you have a picture of him in your mind. You don't. He takes the stereotypes of effeminate gay men and triples them. So of course I knew there was a chance he was transgender.
    Now comes the part where I stop saying "he," which I was saying because I was attracted to him as a boy. I just learned she's transgender at a party. Again, I didn't say anything because I didn't want to take the spotlight.
    But noooooo! Why?

    There's really no advice that is applicable here (tell her to stop being trans? :lol:slight_smile:, but I'm just venting. Sighhh…I meet a great gay guy and it turns out she's not a gay guy but a straight women who was just coming out in steps…
     
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    If she can't be your boyfriend she can at least be your "fag hag". :slight_smile: I'm just saying to look on the bright side.
     
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    Maybe you could date her anyway? It wouldn't be the first time someone had fallen in love with someone of the wrong gender, and formed a relationship anyway.
     
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    That is true, and she probably won't transition until after high school. One very gutsy girl did but I don't think most people would because, well, it's high school (you know high school), and also, being the class president, lots of people would consider it awkward/bad…etc.
    I can't go publicly to prom with a man or a woman with the body of a man (parents), but I guess I can and it can be our secret.