How long did it take for people's families to adjust to your big announcement? I know that my family is going to freak out some. I have only been with men and I am married. I really don't know if they will believe me.
Mine probably won`t help much, but check out this sub-forum. Coming Out Stories - Empty Closets - A safe online community for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender people coming out The Coming Out Late at Life forum might have some good threads by people coming out while being married. My family guessed it before me, so it`s just unhelpful *hugs*