(not sure if these vague ramblings belong in here or general - mods, feel free to shift it) Theres this customer who came into my work (said shes been in before but id never seen her) , damn attractive, & she thought i was a guy (SCORE!!) - i know this because she had her toddler son with her & told him she was just going to ask the man - me - for some help.. Spent a good bit of time helping her select what she needed, & she asked to borrow a few storage crates, to which i said Yeah, but she better bring them back, or id track her down - i say that to everyone, but it felt different saying it to her.. She dropped back in the next day to return the crates, & came over to me, asked to place an order, so i got all that noted down, & she went to leave. Then she turns back to me & says "Im Rebecca by the way.." - & i pretty much forgot how to speak :icon_redf :bang: I think i just about managed 'cool..' before she left. Sure shes bloody stunning & im nothing, but i couldnt respond with 'my name is...', because she thinks im a dude, & im stuck with a :***: girls name, that i cant lie about because im at work & theres other ppl around!! I'll get 1 last chance when she comes back to collect her order in a few wks.. This has actually happened with another customer a good while ago, with me acting the exact same then as well :bang: Any advice? A.
Well, if you ever want to get lucky, you have to get brave. Letting them know your name might make them think you`re a guy stuck with a girly name, but it might also tip them in the right direction. You have nothing you ought to hide. And at some point you`d have to be honest with them anyways, if it ends up in a romantic entanglement. Hope it goes well
