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Sometimes I Wish The Whole World Were Gay

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by diseased icon, Jun 22, 2013.

  1. diseased icon

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    Im very frustrated lately, because i can't seem to decipher guys lately. I meant a guy at marching band (prob not the best idea after last time, but he seems normal) and we've been texting for the longest time now. The only problem is, I can't tell if he's gay, and I dont have the balls to ask.....what do i do?
     
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    Ask. Put it this way: if he's gay, he'll tell you and maybe you can go on a date! If he's not gay, but still supports LGBT stuff, then he'll say no and won't mind at all. If he's not gay and doesn't support LGBT people, then you don't want to be associating with him anyway. So no matter what, you'll learn something valuable :slight_smile:.

    And I totally wish the whole world was gay too :grin:.
     
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    Yea it would make finding someone much easier for us, or at least the ones we're interested should be interested in us too. Good luck with this guy :thumbsup:
     
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    Yeah everything would be alot easier... I would feel so much more happy and feel like I have a chance of meeting someone if everyone was. Its hard cause you don't actually know if someone is gay unless you say and its very awkward to just ask someone if they are gay, if they say no it just makes things so uncomfortable.
     
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    Haha to be honest, I'd prefer the whole world being bisexual! Imagine that? I think world peace would occur right then and there. As for your situation- it can be frustrating.. and I'd tell you to subtly ask him in full knowledge of the consequences...
     
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    i just wish there was a magic symbol that would pop up and say HEY EVERYONE IM GAYYY
    its a pain trying to decipher who is and isnt gay...
    and i dont wanna ask him, because then he would know i like him...
     
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    you might be over thinking it. i've liked girls and boys, and lately i don't pay much attention to girls, but if a girl liked me and i wasn't interested (or anyone in general), i'd be flattered to say the least, maybe a little creeped, but so what. take a chance or you'll never know!

    ---------- Post added 25th Jun 2013 at 02:26 AM ----------

    also, if the whole world was gay how would anyone be born?

    ---------- Post added 25th Jun 2013 at 02:26 AM ----------

    logic*
     
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    yeah no he was straight :frowning2:
     
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    Awww, that's a shame. My sympathies, man. Hang in there, I'm sure you'll find someone eventually. (*hug*)