In another thread started on 31st May, "Oh no! I Love my Friend", I explained that I had a very unexpected dream about one of my closest friends. You might want to refer to that thread for context, but as a brief summary: I had a dream that he partially stripped for me. Awkward... He just took everything off apart from - I think you know. But I had another dream last night that was more emotional, but I still don't feel any emotions in real life for him. What happened was, we were walking together and I put my hand near the opposite of his elbow on his arm, and then slowly brushed it until I was loosely gripping his hand. He just said something like "That won't happen", and I released him. I ca't remember anything after that. And this is my second intimate dream about him, but I honestly don't feel anything for him more than friendship - or at least what I'm aware of. What should I do? I've told my very best friend about the first dream - please refer to the name of the thread in the first paragraph - and I can truly confide in him, and he knows all of my secrets. But I haven't told him about this recent dream yet, and would find it very difficult to tell him.
There is no need to tell anyone about any dream. It´s YOUR dream. Better still, it´s you DREAM. It´s something that the mind makes up in miliseconds out of "useful material": random people you know, random feelings you have, put together. Don´t give it importance. It´s unpleasant, to have to listen to someone that had a dream about you that includes feelings or physical stuff, unless it´s your partner. Don´t burden your friend with telling him about having dreams about him.
I had these dreams. I told the guy. It weirded him out. and me in hindsight. I think honestly it's less about that person in specific and more about what it all symbolizes about your feelings/life in general. At least that's how I've come to understand those dreams. The thing about dreams is they're created by your own mind - so the interpretation is only available from yourself.
