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What's your love style? (test)

Discussion in 'Fun and Games' started by Owen, Dec 11, 2013.

  1. Owen

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    Basically, love styles are different way people go about feeling and expressing their love. There are six of them, and you can see how strongly you feel/express each one with this test:

    Love Attitudes Scale

    (If you haven't been in a relationship before, you can use how you imagine you'd act when in one when answering those questions.)

    You can read about what the scores mean at the end of the test, or on the Wikipedia page on love styles. Here are my scores:

    Eros (passionate): 20
    Ludus (playful): 8
    Storge (friendship): 22
    Pragma (practical): 10
    Mania (intense): 7
    Agape (selfless): 5

    I had a feeling eros and storge would be my primary styles, but I'm surprised the others are so low in comparison. Plus I thought for sure ludus would be my lowest score.
     
  2. Minamimoto_Fan

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    Eros (passionate): 25
    Ludus (playful): 2
    Storge (friendship): 22
    Pragma (practical): 7
    Mania (intense): 13
    Agape (selfless): 28

    I think this is fairly accurate
     
  3. jargon

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    Eros (passionate): 20
    Ludus (playful): 6
    Storge (friendship): 14
    Pragma (practical): 8
    Mania (intense): 12
    Agape (selfless): 19

    Makes sense for me. I'd expect Ludus and Pragma to be the lowest. The other four I would've had a hard time picking out which ones were strongest, so I'm a little surprised the differences were so clear.
     
  4. Tzoa

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    Eros (passionate): 20
    Ludus (playful): 5
    Storge (friendship): 24
    Pragma (practical): 8
    Mania (intense): 8
    Agape (selfless): 11

    I'm not surprised storge is kinda high for me, but am surprised at how low pragma is.
     
  5. thekillingmoon

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    Eros (passionate): 19
    Ludus (playful): 7
    Storge (friendship): 19
    Pragma (practical): 7
    Mania (intense): 23
    Agape (selfless): 16

    so I'm a little obsessive, it's not that bad I swear :lol:
     
  6. An Gentleman

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    Eros (passionate): 3
    Ludus (playful): 17
    Storge (friendship): 15
    Pragma (practical): 21
    Mania (intense): 0
    Agape (selfless): 5

    Seems legit.
     
  7. Hysteria

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    Eros (passionate): 20
    Ludus (playful): 7
    Storge (friendship): 10
    Pragma (practical): 1
    Mania (intense): 24
    Agape (selfless): 21

    I wouldn't say that's far off what I previously thought.
     


  8. Eros (passionate): 24
    Ludus (playful): 3
    Storge (friendship): 19
    Pragma (practical): 9
    Mania (intense): 25
    Agape (selfless): 21


    based on experience in a real relationship, seems right also


     
  9. GreyFox

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    I'll rate mine from highest to lowest:

    Eros (passionate) 18
    Mania (intense) 14
    Ludus (playful) 14
    Agape (selfless) 13
    Storge (friendship) 12
    Pragma (practical) 7

    sounds about right i guess!
     
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    Eros (passionate) 20
    Ludus (playful) 9
    Storge (friendship) 22
    Pragma (practical) 13
    Mania (intense) 16
    Agape (selfless) 20
     
  11. Double Eagle

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    Eros (passionate): 2
    Ludus (playful): 0
    Storge (friendship): 16
    Pragma (practical): 14
    Mania (intense): 16
    Agape (selfless): 25

    IF I HAD A PARTNER

    Eros (passionate): 24
    Ludus (playful): 4
    Storge (friendship): 12
    Pragma (practical): 17
    Mania (intense): 18
    Agape (selfless): 20
    ________________
     
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  12. geekchicgirl

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    Eros (passionate) 25
    Ludus (playful) 7
    Storge (friendship) 16
    Pragma (practical) 14
    Mania (intense) 20
    Agape (selfless) 21
     
  13. Xirahii

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    Eros (passionate): 25
    Ludus (playful): 5
    Storge (friendship): 25
    Pragma (practical): 10
    Mania (intense): 25
    Agape (selfless): 22

    Based this on real relationships... I'd say it's pretty accurate.
     
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    Eros (passionate): 22
    Ludus (playful): 13
    Storge (friendship): 13
    Pragma (practical): 14
    Mania (intense): 11
    Agape (selfless): 23

    Some things I've never done, yet or experienced, yet. So I put them in the "neutral" zone.
     
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    Eros (passionate): 24
    Ludus (playful): 9
    Storge (friendship): 25
    Pragma (practical): 21
    Mania (intense): 21
    Agape (selfless): 25

    not sure though but it will change over time when I'm in a relationship.
     
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    Ludus(playful):9
    Storge(friendship):22
    Pragma(practical):10
    Mania(intense):14
    Agape(selfless):18
     
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    Eros (passionate): 21
    Ludus (playful): 7
    Storge (friendship): 18
    Pragma (practical): 17
    Mania (intense): 17
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    Storge (friendship): 17
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    Mania (intense): 27
    Agape (selfless): 28

    Foxface
     
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    Storge (friendship): 12
    Pragma (practical): 10
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    Pragma: 14
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    Agape: 14

    I have no idea since I've never been in a relationship before. But it seems close enough to how I think I would approach it.