Well, since I get called names, and haters come out of the woodwork when I try and post a thread worth using your brain over......... Here is another "fluff" thread............. 40 Things Every Gay Man Should Do Before Turning 40 PHOTOS: 40 Things Every Gay Man Should Do Before Turning 40 / Queerty I find most of these ludicrous, some are offensive, and others are just plain stereotypical (which in itself is offensive). I find #1 the most offensive. THIS IS NOT A DEBATE THREAD. Comments are fine, as long as that is all they are.
I feel quite time pressured, with only 10 years to get all this done. Not sure I've managed any of these, except that I don't think I'm afraid of lesbians. No. 5 definitely hasn't happened yet. ---------- Post added 29th Mar 2015 at 11:25 PM ---------- Actually I have done No. 9.
Done a few, but none in any gay context. I know you said 'no debate', but half the stuff on that list is all the patronising over-gay stuff that has only pushed me further back in the closet as I just do not want to identify with it. I have no interest in wearing women clothes or any of that drag shite, I have no desire for any damn parades. Why do we need a parade and that silly flag, can the gay community decide if they want the labels and nonsense that goes along with it or can we just be people?
Wow--I'm a bit over 40, but I've done 34 of them, although one of them not until after I was 40 (the gay wedding).
I've done quite a few of them, mostly in the past 5 years (well past age 40). The most interesting is having sex in a foreign country and more particularly, in a foreign language (one that I am in the process of learning). I discovered that it is possible to concentrate either on the sex or on the language, but not both at the same time!
I didn't go to a pride parade, a pride parade came to me in Rome And I loved it! Hell, I love any type of parades as long as they look like a mess of chaotic fun, and the pride parade qualifies just that. And have you seen some of the guys?? Mind-boggling hot *____* Unfortunately I didn't have much chance to ogle as my cousin and aunt were also there..
