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straal1972 · 12th Jan 2011, 04:37 PM

I thought of this game while driving to the office this evening. Pretty simple, pose 2 possible things about a partner and the next poster has to choose one (and explain if they want to) and post another 2 possibles. I'll start

What's more important in your partner...

Body type (size, colour, etc) or

Body Image (how they view themselves)

Steve712 · 12th Jan 2011, 04:42 PM

Body image by far. I want him to love himself.

straal1972 · 12th Jan 2011, 04:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Steve712

Body image by far. I want him to love himself.

and now post 2 other possibles

Steve712 · 12th Jan 2011, 04:55 PM

Oops! Sorry.

Sexually experienced or sexually inexperienced?

**Owen** · 12th Jan 2011, 06:08 PM

Being inexperienced myself, it would be nice if he could show me the ropes (not literally, though), but I can also see the charm of showing someone how it's done or exploring it with them. I'll go with inexperienced.

Left-brained (favoring logic and reason) or right-brained (favoring subjectivity and intuition)?

Steve712 · 12th Jan 2011, 06:59 PM

Left-brained.

Younger or older?

blankpaper · 12th Jan 2011, 07:00 PM

Well I think I would go for a left-brained type of person. I can relate to these type of people better.

Taller than your or shorter than you?

HAHA sorry I think we posted at the same time :P

straal1972 · 12th Jan 2011, 07:58 PM

shorter then me i'm 6'2", no wait taller would be way cooler

cut or uncut ?

InaRut · 12th Jan 2011, 08:55 PM

Well...Uncut. Like myself.

!

Prefers to dress up fancy

Prefers to be naked.

radiantdawn · 12th Jan 2011, 11:32 PM

probably dress up fancy XD. I like vests (like tuxedo vests) for some reason =p . Being naked has its place.. but not all the time lol.

hm... idk... boxers or briefs I guess? XD

Brad · 13th Jan 2011, 05:22 AM

Briefs.

Job,

White Collar or Blue Collar?

radiantdawn · 13th Jan 2011, 08:11 AM

white collar. I didn't know what this was so I had to search it up DX .

lemme see... talkative, or listens more? (choose if he will be the talker or listener basically. I know ideally it would be both, but... choose DX)

Beachboi92 · 13th Jan 2011, 08:16 AM

talkative as long as they don't care that i am more of a listener xD I like someone to keep conversation going and hate awkward pauses but i myself am not a chatty cathy. Of course id someone never wanted to shut it and let me speak i'd have a problem :x

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oh and taller or shorter

InaRut · 13th Jan 2011, 12:18 PM

Taller

Half Bovine or Half Horse

maverick · 13th Jan 2011, 12:24 PM

Quote:

Half Bovine or Half Horse

lolwut? Is this question minotaur vs. centaur? Because I'm not into ungulates.

Cleanliness (being uncluttered, but maybe a bit OCD) or laid-back attitude (less organized, but also less high-strung)??

**Rosina** · 13th Jan 2011, 12:39 PM

Cleanliness.

How they show their love for you;
Vocally (Whispering sweet nothings in your ear, telling you "I love you" a lot)
OR
Physically (touching, stroking and caressing)

straal1972 · 13th Jan 2011, 02:22 PM

I think I would like Physically

Great dancer or
Excellent cuddler?

TheWanderer · 13th Jan 2011, 04:23 PM

Excellent cuddler for sure. I can't dance so having someone who can would be a waste of his talents...

jock or intellectual?

**Owen** · 13th Jan 2011, 07:41 PM

Intellectual, clearly.

Hot or beautiful/handsome? (There is a difference, mind you.)

crystaltriforce · 13th Jan 2011, 07:49 PM

beautiful (although i really don't get the difference)

smart or dumb?

12th Jan 2011, 04:37 PM	#1
straal1972 EC chat slayer Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: I'm out to everyone who's important to me Location: Outside of Barrie On Age: 39 Posts: 510 Join Date: Dec 2010	Whats more important in your partner I thought of this game while driving to the office this evening. Pretty simple, pose 2 possible things about a partner and the next poster has to choose one (and explain if they want to) and post another 2 possibles. I'll start What's more important in your partner... Body type (size, colour, etc) or Body Image (how they view themselves) __________________ Sweat, baby, sweat, baby. Sex is a Texas drought Me and you do the kind of stuff that only Prince would sing about. So put your hands down my pants and I'll bet you'll feel nuts! Do it now! You and me baby ain't nothin' but mammals . So let's do it like they do on the Discovery Channel -Bloodhound Gang

12th Jan 2011, 04:42 PM	#2
Steve712 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Mostly out. Location: New Brunswick, Canada Age: 17 Posts: 1,294 Join Date: Feb 2010	Re: Whats more important in your partner Body image by far. I want him to love himself. __________________ "Yet if hope has flown away / In a night, or in a day, In a vision, or in none, / Is it therefore the less gone?" - Poe

12th Jan 2011, 04:55 PM	#4
Steve712 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Mostly out. Location: New Brunswick, Canada Age: 17 Posts: 1,294 Join Date: Feb 2010	Re: Whats more important in your partner Oops! Sorry. Sexually experienced or sexually inexperienced? __________________ "Yet if hope has flown away / In a night, or in a day, In a vision, or in none, / Is it therefore the less gone?" - Poe

12th Jan 2011, 06:08 PM	#5
Owen Cleverly disguised as a responsible adult EC Admin Gender: Agendered dude Orientation: Panromantic androsexual Out Status: Everyone and their mother Location: Massachusetts, USA Age: 21 Posts: 2,873 Join Date: Jul 2007	Re: Whats more important in your partner Being inexperienced myself, it would be nice if he could show me the ropes (not literally, though), but I can also see the charm of showing someone how it's done or exploring it with them. I'll go with inexperienced. Left-brained (favoring logic and reason) or right-brained (favoring subjectivity and intuition)? __________________ "Stand firm for what you believe in, until and unless logic and experience prove you wrong. Remember, when the emperor looks naked, the emperor is naked. The truth and a lie are not sort of the same thing. And there is no aspect, no facet, no moment of life that can't be improved with pizza." -Daria Morgendorffer

12th Jan 2011, 06:59 PM	#6
Steve712 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Mostly out. Location: New Brunswick, Canada Age: 17 Posts: 1,294 Join Date: Feb 2010	Re: Whats more important in your partner Left-brained. Younger or older? __________________ "Yet if hope has flown away / In a night, or in a day, In a vision, or in none, / Is it therefore the less gone?" - Poe

12th Jan 2011, 07:00 PM	#7
blankpaper Confusion all over the place Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Six friends, mom, dad and brother!! Location: Boston Posts: 220 Join Date: Aug 2009	Re: Whats more important in your partner Well I think I would go for a left-brained type of person. I can relate to these type of people better. Taller than your or shorter than you? HAHA sorry I think we posted at the same time :P __________________ So is life... Last edited by blankpaper; 12th Jan 2011 at 07:00 PM.. Reason: sillyness

12th Jan 2011, 07:58 PM	#8
straal1972 EC chat slayer Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: I'm out to everyone who's important to me Location: Outside of Barrie On Age: 39 Posts: 510 Join Date: Dec 2010	Re: Whats more important in your partner shorter then me i'm 6'2", no wait taller would be way cooler cut or uncut ? __________________ Sweat, baby, sweat, baby. Sex is a Texas drought Me and you do the kind of stuff that only Prince would sing about. So put your hands down my pants and I'll bet you'll feel nuts! Do it now! You and me baby ain't nothin' but mammals . So let's do it like they do on the Discovery Channel -Bloodhound Gang

12th Jan 2011, 08:55 PM	#9
InaRut EC's Nu-Disco Walrus Full Member Gender: IRL Yaoi Character Orientation: (｡◕‿◕。) Out Status: ㅎ_ㅎ Location: Montreal, Quebec, Canada Age: 22 Posts: 7,111 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: Whats more important in your partner Well...Uncut. Like myself. ! Prefers to dress up fancy Prefers to be naked. __________________ "The first duty of every Starfleet Officer is to the truth. Whether it's scientific truth, historical truth, or personal truth. It is the guiding principle to which Starfleet is based. If you can't find it within yourself, to tell the truth about what happened, then you don't deserve to where that uniform."

12th Jan 2011, 11:32 PM	#10
radiantdawn Well Known Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Immediate family and close friends Location: Vancouver, B.C. Age: 18 Posts: 173 Join Date: Jan 2011	Re: Whats more important in your partner probably dress up fancy XD. I like vests (like tuxedo vests) for some reason =p . Being naked has its place.. but not all the time lol. hm... idk... boxers or briefs I guess? XD

13th Jan 2011, 05:22 AM	#11
Brad Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Out Status: Nope, not really. Location: Victoria, Australia. Posts: 235 Join Date: Nov 2009	Re: Whats more important in your partner Briefs. Job, White Collar or Blue Collar?

13th Jan 2011, 08:11 AM	#12
radiantdawn Well Known Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Immediate family and close friends Location: Vancouver, B.C. Age: 18 Posts: 173 Join Date: Jan 2011	Re: Whats more important in your partner white collar. I didn't know what this was so I had to search it up DX . lemme see... talkative, or listens more? (choose if he will be the talker or listener basically. I know ideally it would be both, but... choose DX)

13th Jan 2011, 08:16 AM	#13
Beachboi92 Occasionally Caddy Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: queer Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Frederick Maryland Age: 19 Posts: 2,226 Join Date: Jul 2009	Re: Whats more important in your partner talkative as long as they don't care that i am more of a listener xD I like someone to keep conversation going and hate awkward pauses but i myself am not a chatty cathy. Of course id someone never wanted to shut it and let me speak i'd have a problem :x ---------- Post added 13th Jan 2011 at 11:16 AM ---------- oh and taller or shorter __________________ All men are created equal, it is only men themselves who place themselves above equality. David Allan Coe

13th Jan 2011, 12:18 PM	#14
InaRut EC's Nu-Disco Walrus Full Member Gender: IRL Yaoi Character Orientation: (｡◕‿◕。) Out Status: ㅎ_ㅎ Location: Montreal, Quebec, Canada Age: 22 Posts: 7,111 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: Whats more important in your partner Taller Half Bovine or Half Horse __________________ "The first duty of every Starfleet Officer is to the truth. Whether it's scientific truth, historical truth, or personal truth. It is the guiding principle to which Starfleet is based. If you can't find it within yourself, to tell the truth about what happened, then you don't deserve to where that uniform."

13th Jan 2011, 12:39 PM	#16
Rosina An Abnormal Default EC Moderator Gender: Female Orientation: Straight Out Status: As out as the next straight kid Location: Surrey, UK Age: 19 Posts: 4,103 Join Date: Sep 2008	Re: Whats more important in your partner Cleanliness. How they show their love for you; Vocally (Whispering sweet nothings in your ear, telling you "I love you" a lot) OR Physically (touching, stroking and caressing) __________________ Hang in there, because things have always and will always change - It Gets Better Rebecca Drysdale

13th Jan 2011, 02:22 PM	#17
straal1972 EC chat slayer Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: I'm out to everyone who's important to me Location: Outside of Barrie On Age: 39 Posts: 510 Join Date: Dec 2010	Re: Whats more important in your partner I think I would like Physically Great dancer or Excellent cuddler? __________________ Sweat, baby, sweat, baby. Sex is a Texas drought Me and you do the kind of stuff that only Prince would sing about. So put your hands down my pants and I'll bet you'll feel nuts! Do it now! You and me baby ain't nothin' but mammals . So let's do it like they do on the Discovery Channel -Bloodhound Gang

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13th Jan 2011, 04:23 PM	#18
TheWanderer Pork Lover of EC Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: few friends, cousin, co-workers Location: massachusetts Age: 25 Posts: 335 Join Date: Dec 2010	Re: Whats more important in your partner Excellent cuddler for sure. I can't dance so having someone who can would be a waste of his talents... jock or intellectual? __________________ “Not all those who wander are lost.” - J.R.R Tolkien

13th Jan 2011, 07:41 PM	#19
Owen Cleverly disguised as a responsible adult EC Admin Gender: Agendered dude Orientation: Panromantic androsexual Out Status: Everyone and their mother Location: Massachusetts, USA Age: 21 Posts: 2,873 Join Date: Jul 2007	Re: Whats more important in your partner Intellectual, clearly. Hot or beautiful/handsome? (There is a difference, mind you.) __________________ "Stand firm for what you believe in, until and unless logic and experience prove you wrong. Remember, when the emperor looks naked, the emperor is naked. The truth and a lie are not sort of the same thing. And there is no aspect, no facet, no moment of life that can't be improved with pizza." -Daria Morgendorffer

13th Jan 2011, 07:49 PM	#20
crystaltriforce raised by nintendo and sega Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: all but extended family Location: outside of Philadelphia Age: 21 Posts: 1,825 Join Date: Dec 2008	Re: Whats more important in your partner beautiful (although i really don't get the difference) smart or dumb? __________________ we need masculinity....PUT ON THE "FUZZY FUZZY CUTE CUTE" SONG!!! Last edited by crystaltriforce; 13th Jan 2011 at 07:53 PM..