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straal1972 · 21st Mar 2011, 06:10 PM

There will probably be more then 10 but i'll start off with a few

#1 think that they are straight.....
#2 think that a penis is a soother for adults
#3 think that all dates need to end with clothes on the floor
#4 are so scared of being rejected never take a chance, not realizing the other guy FEELS THE SAME WAY
#5 forget that personality counts for more then chisled abs

away we go......

zeratul · 21st Mar 2011, 06:18 PM

Say I love you on the first date and scare the other person away ! lol

**Owen** · 21st Mar 2011, 06:19 PM

Give in to the straight-acting/flamboyant dichotomy to such an extent that they lose their individuality.

alexi12 · 21st Mar 2011, 06:46 PM

gossip

malachite · 21st Mar 2011, 07:12 PM

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Originally Posted by zeratul

Say I love you on the first date and scare the other person away ! lol

This happened to me once and I went running for the hills.

InaRut · 21st Mar 2011, 08:01 PM

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Originally Posted by zeratul

Say I love you on the first date and scare the other person away ! lol

Not believe in true love :P

No? Okay...Seriously then:
Be over-analytical over everything and end up playing the daisy game with every guy they meet (He likes me, he likes me not).

Although I myself try to avoid this game...Can it really be helped?

Gambit · 21st Mar 2011, 08:09 PM

Crush on their straight friends

Macholover · 21st Mar 2011, 08:09 PM

10) Gossipping about one another behind each other's backs.

09) Judging someone solely based on their physical appearance.

08) Engaging in promiscous sex without condoms.

07) Having sex on the first date.

06) Engaging in drug use.

05) Having an open sexual relationship.

04) Pretending to be heterosexual.

03) Marrying someone of the oppposite gender to retain a heterosexual image.

02) Obsessing about one's physical appearance to the point of self destruction.

01) Contemplating suicide and not seeking help for their depressive confused state.

zeratul · 21st Mar 2011, 10:55 PM

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Originally Posted by InaRut

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Originally Posted by zeratul

Say I love you on the first date and scare the other person away ! lol

Not believe in true love :P

No? Okay...Seriously then:
Be over-analytical over everything and end up playing the daisy game with every guy they meet (He likes me, he likes me not).

Although I myself try to avoid this game...Can it really be helped?

So...

Beachboi92 · 21st Mar 2011, 11:26 PM

Play the game.... i hate the fricken game

Zontar · 22nd Mar 2011, 04:59 AM

Engage in risky sexual behavior, perhaps due to outside influence such as rejection by family and friends.

**Owen** · 22nd Mar 2011, 07:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Beachboi92

Play the game.... i hate the fricken game

Dammit, I lost the game.

Revan · 22nd Mar 2011, 07:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Zontar

Engage in risky sexual behavior, perhaps due to outside influence such as rejection by family and friends.

I think this is a very true thing. If you ask either HIV patients or those who engage in it I think it's because they don't feel worth anything....it's like Burt Hummel said "you're going to think you can just give your body away because you're not loved" but luckily in Kurt's case he is loved and (hopefully) won't give it away. But there are others who aren't as lucky.

NickT · 22nd Mar 2011, 07:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Beachboi92

Play the game.... i hate the fricken game

And I hate you. >: (

#11: Forsake a college education so he can be with his fuck buddy.

malachite · 22nd Mar 2011, 08:43 AM

drama

**Chip** · 22nd Mar 2011, 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by zeratul

Say I love you on the first date and scare the other person away ! lol

Or the opposite: Never say "I love you" and scare the person away because s/he is looking for a meaningful relationship.

**Eleanor Rigby** · 22nd Mar 2011, 02:00 PM

Not coming out to their obviously supportive straight friend.

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Originally Posted by zeratul

Say I love you on the first date and scare the other person away ! lol

That one is also in "The 10 Stupid things Straight Girls do to mess up their lives"

Neoh · 22nd Mar 2011, 02:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Charlie_Momey

Crush on their straight friends

Better yet, flirt with straight friends. I scared a few off that way, probably one of the few things I regret. They were great people, and the way I was acting was definitely inappropriate.

Miss Bubbles · 23rd Mar 2011, 07:26 AM

Have more then one relationship at once

musican · 23rd Mar 2011, 10:51 AM

Become shopaholics and fry their hair with dye and straightening it all the time so they're bald by the time they're 25 and then they've been vain all their lives so they think they're ugly and have nothing to live for without their hair.

21st Mar 2011, 08:09 PM	#7
Gambit Wanna be mutant Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Somewhere between gay and bi Out Status: out to 1 ex-friend and mom kinda knows Age: 22 Posts: 186 Join Date: Feb 2010	Re: The 10 Stupid things Gay Men do to mess up their lives Crush on their straight friends __________________ "They wish to cure us, but I say we are the cure"

21st Mar 2011, 08:09 PM	#8
Macholover Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Location: Orlando, Florida Posts: 26 Join Date: Feb 2011	Re: The 10 Stupid things Gay Men do to mess up their lives 10) Gossipping about one another behind each other's backs. 09) Judging someone solely based on their physical appearance. 08) Engaging in promiscous sex without condoms. 07) Having sex on the first date. 06) Engaging in drug use. 05) Having an open sexual relationship. 04) Pretending to be heterosexual. 03) Marrying someone of the oppposite gender to retain a heterosexual image. 02) Obsessing about one's physical appearance to the point of self destruction. 01) Contemplating suicide and not seeking help for their depressive confused state.

21st Mar 2011, 11:26 PM	#10
Beachboi92 Occasionally Caddy Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: queer Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Frederick Maryland Age: 19 Posts: 2,226 Join Date: Jul 2009	Re: The 10 Stupid things Gay Men do to mess up their lives Play the game.... i hate the fricken game __________________ All men are created equal, it is only men themselves who place themselves above equality. David Allan Coe

22nd Mar 2011, 08:43 AM	#15
malachite EC's realist Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando Posts: 6,480 Join Date: Apr 2009	Re: The 10 Stupid things Gay Men do to mess up their lives drama __________________ It's the 21st century, your bigotry is outdated. Either upgrade or go away.

23rd Mar 2011, 07:26 AM	#19
Miss Bubbles EC Addict Full Member Gender: confused on some levels Orientation: of the homosexual persuation. Out Status: So out im in Location: Indiana Age: 19 Posts: 1,037 Join Date: Nov 2009	Re: The 10 Stupid things Gay Men do to mess up their lives Have more then one relationship at once __________________ A Dialogue my besty made up in first period: Oh this reminds me of the time joan rivers made that fatal mistake: Oh apples how I hunger for youuuuu. "Joan Don't Touch those!" -bite- -hiss- 'Joan you and adam are cast out of heaven!!!!'-- Ashley D.

21st Mar 2011, 06:10 PM	#1
straal1972 EC chat slayer Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: I'm out to everyone who's important to me Location: Outside of Barrie On Age: 39 Posts: 510 Join Date: Dec 2010	The 10 Stupid things Gay Men do to mess up their lives There will probably be more then 10 but i'll start off with a few #1 think that they are straight..... #2 think that a penis is a soother for adults #3 think that all dates need to end with clothes on the floor #4 are so scared of being rejected never take a chance, not realizing the other guy FEELS THE SAME WAY #5 forget that personality counts for more then chisled abs away we go...... __________________ Sweat, baby, sweat, baby. Sex is a Texas drought Me and you do the kind of stuff that only Prince would sing about. So put your hands down my pants and I'll bet you'll feel nuts! Do it now! You and me baby ain't nothin' but mammals . So let's do it like they do on the Discovery Channel -Bloodhound Gang

21st Mar 2011, 06:18 PM	#2
zeratul Prelate Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Location: Toronto Posts: 748 Join Date: Jan 2011	Re: The 10 Stupid things Gay Men do to mess up their lives Say I love you on the first date and scare the other person away ! lol __________________ I am a lord of shadows. I claim the shadows that the Shadow may not. I am the strong arm of deliverance. I am Shadowstrider. I am the Scales of Justice. I am He-Who-Guards-Unseen. I am Shadowslayer. I am Nameless. They shall not go unpunished. My way is hard, but I serve unbroken.

21st Mar 2011, 06:19 PM	#3
Owen Cleverly disguised as a responsible adult EC Admin Gender: Agendered dude Orientation: Panromantic androsexual Out Status: Everyone and their mother Location: Massachusetts, USA Age: 21 Posts: 2,873 Join Date: Jul 2007	Re: The 10 Stupid things Gay Men do to mess up their lives Give in to the straight-acting/flamboyant dichotomy to such an extent that they lose their individuality. __________________ "Stand firm for what you believe in, until and unless logic and experience prove you wrong. Remember, when the emperor looks naked, the emperor is naked. The truth and a lie are not sort of the same thing. And there is no aspect, no facet, no moment of life that can't be improved with pizza." -Daria Morgendorffer

21st Mar 2011, 06:46 PM	#4
alexi12 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: All but extended family Location: Chicago Area Age: 18 Posts: 371 Join Date: Jun 2010	Re: The 10 Stupid things Gay Men do to mess up their lives gossip

22nd Mar 2011, 04:59 AM	#11
Zontar Mister Funny Man Full Member Gender: Male Location: Binghampton, NY Posts: 1,539 Join Date: Oct 2010	Re: The 10 Stupid things Gay Men do to mess up their lives Engage in risky sexual behavior, perhaps due to outside influence such as rejection by family and friends. __________________ Get up and open your eyes...Don't ever let yourself ever fall down... Get through it and learn how to fly...I know you'll find a way...today. -Days of the New, "Dirty Road"

23rd Mar 2011, 10:51 AM	#20
musican EC's Resident DJ Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: "I wanna kiss a boy" Out Status: family and facebook Location: (Not the city), New York Age: 20 Posts: 3,832 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: The 10 Stupid things Gay Men do to mess up their lives Become shopaholics and fry their hair with dye and straightening it all the time so they're bald by the time they're 25 and then they've been vain all their lives so they think they're ugly and have nothing to live for without their hair. __________________ How I miss our love when the winter surrounds me icicle teardrops.