I keep having sexual dreams about guys

Sometimes dreams don't actually mean that much. They may just be a reflection of your subconscious thoughts, and the dream is a manifestation of you processing them while you sleep.

If you're like me, though, dreams mean more. Many times, I've gotten either upset or intrigued quite a bit by dreams that I've had. Whether that's good or bad is up for debate, in my opinion. You can't really control what you dream, sort of, so it sometimes may be best to just take them as they are.

For reference, I once dreamt I had sex with a girl. I distinctly remember not enjoying it, to say the least. I kind of just took it in bemusement.

 

Huh, believe it or not, same-sex dreams were the sole reason I began questioning, which, looking back, wasn't really something to get so worked up over. Heterosexuals who dream they are homosexual are experiencing increased self-love, compassion, and acceptance, at least according to one site, so I wonder what the opposite means?

Dream Moods Dream Themes: Sex

 

It might not mean anything, but then again it may mean something somewhat substantial. Don't let it affect you if you don't find guys attractive in that way in your day-to-day life. Otherwise, though, it'd be something to think about. Lack of sex dreams about types of people doesn't mean that you don't like them.

For example, I don't have sex dreams about guys these days. I can definitely say that I'm attracted to them a lot, though, you know? I wish you the best =)

 

Dreams are strange that way, and unfortunately most of us aren't qualified for interpreting them (there is one member, Foxface, who can help you there). If they're causing you distress, I'd consult a professional, otherwise, don't worry, since they rarely point to sexual orientation. I'd take real life crushes, interest, and experience over them any day.

 

My take is everybody can be aroused by anyone when they are aroused. Dream might be elaborated, detailed just as your imagination. The fact that you are indifferent might lead to a conclusion that the whole experience doesn't mean anything.
Anyhow, how are your romantic dreams?

 

Are you attracted to guys sexually in your day-to-day life? If the answer is no, it shouldn't be a large bother, even if it may seem a bit odd. It's as simple as that, really. Dreams could mean many things, and the 'correct' interpretation isn't really known by anyone. All anyone could do is guess.

 

I always say that you should trust your gut when it comes to gender identity and there's nothing more instinctive than your dreams... a lot of times logic can alter your true feelings, but during sleep your subconscious brain takes true emotions and thinks about them while your conscious sleeps... this thinking is then interpreted into mini-scenarios that we then interpret as dreams... I'm willing to bet that you are gay because of the dreams but I wouldn't say that you should be one hundred percent sure... I would need more information to really help you... BTW I am gay and it started with dreams and only escalated from there

 

Maybe he thought you were a guy for some reason?

Also, Link72, perhaps this was about your word choice, but gender identity is distinct from sexuality and attraction.