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Confused ! please help

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Ham, Aug 7, 2013.

  1. Ham

    Ham Guest

    Hi all

    I will try to keep it short.I am 25 yo and confused about everything .for my whole life I identified as male and I don't have any problem with that I like being a guy and very comfortable with my body .I like my name ,I like to be called "he" and I feel not comfortable being called "she". I always wanted to be a father and live my life as a man .I lived my whole life and till now as typical very masculine guy .I thought that I am a gay or bi and sometimes I think I am straight because I still find girls attractive but my problem is when I fantasize about having sex with a guy I see my self as a male but wearing feminine underwear and I fantasize about straight guys only.I don't like gay porn I like only straight porn and shemale porn .when I was kid I remember putting make up (not me but my mother's best friend used to do this to me) but I remember that I liked it .but I was a typical boy like all other boys .I liked to play soccer and wrestling , and my behavior was very normal as a male.

    but now I have this obsession that I am maybe a transgender because of the fantasizing issue ! does this make me transgender or gay ? please help I am very confused and depressed

    is it possible that I am transgender but in denial?
     
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  2. Ham

    Ham Guest

    one more thing to add ,I am very attracted to MtF people after the transition . I feel that I am sexually and emotionally attracted to them and want to have a MtF gf.
     
  3. Nick07

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    Hi,
    I wouldn't say that these are signs of you being transgender. You are a man, feeling like a man, wanting to be a man.
    I am not certain but maybe you could google crossdressing?