im really confused. i was imagining being penetrated by a guy, and i started to imagine me having a vagina and having it penetrated, i was extremely turned on by this idea, im turned on just talking about it now. I think i would love to get pregnant and the idea of it really appeals to me.
Doesn't really say whether or not you're transgender. It just says that you're more liable to bottom during sex. The question with being transgender is this: Do you feel that your sex matches who you are? For example, transwomen are women trapped in a man's body and transmen are men trapped in a woman's body. In cases like mine, I don't really fit either label on the gender spectrum. The other question is this: If someone were to remove your genitals entirely right now, what would be your reaction?
If you feel that you really belong in a woman's body, and your body doesn't feel right, then you might be trans. What you just described could just be a fantasy.
if my genitals were to be removed i would be in shock. But idk if id be happy with a vagina. is it normal for male homosexuals to fantasize about having vaginas or being "breeded" by a guy. i always see the term "breeding" in gay porn and im pretty sure that means making babies. ---------- Post added 21st Aug 2013 at 11:44 PM ---------- btw how does this make me more liable to bottoming?
Funny I used to imagine being pregnant too. Yet it couldn't be by just any man, only someone that was commited to me and me to him.
I think it is more of a sexual thing and less off a "not being in the right body". I actually have similar thoughts. I think about how nice it would be to have a penis to have sex with girls, and a couple of my other gay friends say the same thing. I think it is just your normal, run-of-the-mill fantasy. ---------- Post added 21st Aug 2013 at 06:55 PM ---------- But just to clairify, I wouldn't permanently want a penis. I like having a vagina too. But maybe because I'm bi. If I was lesbian, who knows. So maybe its not the same as yours.
but if your cisgendered, why would you fantasize about having the opposite sex's genitals? does that mean homosexuals are in some form trans?
Partly curiousity. Even cispeople wonder what it'd be like to be the opposite gender from time to time. My brother's straight and cis- says he's wondered about life as the woman.
but with me its different, i was not only imagining having a vagina but i was also imagining having intercourse with one.
^ There you go. You answered your own question. you don't like penetrating, and fantasize about being penetrated. Chances are, when it comes to having sex, you'll be the one getting penetrated. There's a whole ocean of people who fantasize about penetrating someone else. Gay porn isn't the only thing to look at when considering your gender/sexual orientation. There are so many misconceptions people get just because they saw gay porn. It's actually the case with any kind of porn. Porn might be arousing, but it's not a form of research by any means. It's just supposed to make you horny. To answer the main question, there are several guys here who are cisgendered and fantasize about being penetrated. The term for that is "bottom" which is probably what you are. It's nothing wrong, it's nothing immoral. It doesn't automatically take away your masculinity, unlike what most people think. It just means that you're sexually aroused with at least the thought of being penetrated. There are lots of nerve endings in the rectum, and the G-spot is literally right up there. It's no wonder that people have anal and fantasize about that spot being pleasured. And the "breeding" probably just means "having sex" It's impossible for homosexuals to have babies, unless they donate to a sperm bank. In fact, we get a lot of backlash from religious people because homosexuals don't procreate. And frankly, that's probably for the better. There are lots of kids who are in orphanages that need a loving family. That's generalizing, and a totally inaccurate viewpoint of homosexuals. Not all homosexuals fantasize about having the other sex's genitals. Some do, some don't. I'm sure it's the same way with heterosexuals. Yes, there are heterosexual guys who bottom with girls as tops. I don't think the majority of men fantasize about having a vagina, but I'm sure there still are cisgendered people who do.
have you imagined having intercourse with a vagina? ---------- Post added 22nd Aug 2013 at 12:22 AM ---------- or becoming pregnant? (im sure that doesnt have anything to do with bottoming) :S
Yes. Yes, I have. I liked the idea, but I'm not going through with it for several reasons. Convenience being one and another being that I don't want to have periods. I also could go either way, if someone took off my genitals. The only thing I'd worry about is "How will I pee?" Not "Oh dear god, my penis is off" because frankly, I've hated it on many occasions. I've also thought about being pregnant. Again, I could go either way. Chances are I never will be, but should I end up being pregnant, I'd probably think the same things as about any other expecting mother.
Because A. it's unnecessary since I can look androgynous without one, B. I have a boyfriend that doesn't want me as a girl, C. it's convenient to have a penis when going to the bathroom, D. The above reasons why I don't want a vagina, and E. I can bottom and have sexual pleasure without a vagina. There's pretty much no reason for me to get a sex change. I'm not going to spend a ton of money for practically the same result regarding my gender. I might get HRT when I move out, and financially that's still questionable.
Sure? Again, I could go either way. These questions you're asking are practically the same answer for me. I'm androgyne, which means I'm neither male nor female while at the same time pretty much being both. I could go with a penis or a vagina. I know of the pros and cons. I do both guy and girl things. I have guy and girl moments. I've gone through about 3 years of answering the same questions over and over again with the same answer in the long run. I also like looking androgynous. Whenever someone refers to me as "He" I don't give a shit because my sex is male, I'm used to it, and I don't want other people getting more confused than I ever did. At the same time, I like it when someone refers to me as a "she" because I know I'm doing a good job looking androgynous. But whenever someone refers to me as "Ze" I'm ecstatic. Only one person on here has done that, and it's so great to see someone refer you to your actual gender. What's the answer to that question for you? The question of this thread is whether or not you are transgender. This doesn't apply to me, as I've answered all the questions you've thought about with the same answer.
