So.. Gender is really fucking hard to figure out. I don't feel like a dude, and I don't feel like a chick, and I've reached a point, where I do not care at all what my gender identity is. I don't want to try and figure it out anymore, and I truly give no fucks as to what people refer to me as. Is that bad?
It's not good, but it's not bad either. Honestly it get's tiring trying to figure it out, and a lot of days get discouraging. It's fine to be fluid about gender, or not just care at all. I'm about to that point as well.
you know, if you don't stress about it, I think that it is a victory. At the end, it will be always you, no matter how you will call yourself. *hug*
I was going to say the same thing... if you are comfortable not labeling your gender, kudos to you. As Nick07 said, if you are truly happy without a label, I consider that a victory. In the same breath - if you are giving up out of sheer frustration and actually do care, but just can't figure it out... then you still need to keep soul searching.
I'd say hang loose for a while and then see if you feel differently. There is no rush to sort this out. Much better to figure out who you are and then determine what definition fits rather than try to squeeze into an arbitrary one.
Not bad. I'm in the same boat I think. No use needlessly stressing yourself out about it. Take things one day at a time
You are very right to do so. Give yourself some space and chill about it. I have not been on this site in a month. I gave up questioning and questioning and questioning. I would have panic attacks and feel like there was no point in anything. I let it go, focused on other things and left for a bit. I'm a whole lot calmer about who I am now, the occasional question comes up but I feel better. It serves someone best sometimes to just not care. Take care and I hope you feel awesome.
