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Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by SWAGboy, Sep 16, 2013.

  1. SWAGboy

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    HELPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!

    I can't handle my trans truth! I found out I was a transsexual last year after I tried on a Sporty Spice costume.
     
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    Just relax. Take a breath.

    More info please? I'm not sure what else to say right now.
     
  3. drwinchester

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    Yeah. Deep breath. Not the end of the world. Think of it this way. Perhaps you've taken your first steps into a wider world, to quote a Jedi master.

    More info, see if I can't help.
     
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    Try a Geri Halliwell dress - that'll see you right !! :icon_bigg
     
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    I can't cope. I am transsexual and it is rocking my world.

    I NEED HELPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!


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    I am not a troll, please don't be so horrid. I am a mtf transsexual that can't handle being transsex.
     
  7. drwinchester

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    Deep breath. Come on. Are you even serious?

    What's seriously so bad about being trans*? I'm trans*. Make it out okay. You'll be fine. Again, deep breath. Talk it out. What makes you think you're trans*? Besides the dress. Describe what made you come to that conclusion.
     
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    I just feel like crying, I found out a year ago. I don't wqant to be trans but I can't help who I am. I need help, I am super duper majorly serious!!!!!!!!!!

    I need help, I am trans, I need help, helppppppppp!!
    I am trans and I am in need of help, I need helpppppppp
     
  9. Sarcastic Luck

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    What makes you think you're trans?
     
  10. SWAGboy

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    Lol, thank you. Your humour has amused me in my hour of pain!

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    I have had thoughts that I was transsex since I tried on a Sporty Spice costume last year.

    I get images in my head of the skin peeling off of my penis or of it being bitten by a dead.

    Sometimes I get a feeling that it is 'gone'

    I am into feminine things e.g. rihanna and I used to do zumba (not sure if this counts as a reason)

    I think I might have brain/body mismatch and it is driving me insane
     
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    (hey - I wasn't sure if your initial post was serious or not ... but I see it is !)

    what you are ... and what you want to be ... need to align somehow. it sounds like you are unhappy and torn, dare I ask if you have talked things through with a counsellor/therapist or anything ? (*hug*)
     
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    I have spoken to counsellors and therapists and been bounced between services till I was sick of it so no I have no counsellor at the moment and my trans truth is tearing me apart.

    I NEED HELPPPPPPPPP!!!!
     
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    I think that you need to take a deep breath and calm down. You are not going to accomplish anything right now if you are this desperate. Before this, did you have any feelings of being transgender?
     
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    No it all started last year and it has been rocking my world ever since!!!!!!!!!!!
     
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    Okay, you've mentioned things like visions of your dick's skin peeling off.. Which leads me to a question most trans* people have to answer, anyway:

    Would you rather have your dick off and completely taken away? What would your reaction be to waking up with no dick?

    Okay, that was kinda 2 questions... kinda in one..
     
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    Nothing wrong with being trans. What's the problem? Or are you confused because you got off on the cross dressing? Hey, I like to dress genderfuck drag, like radical faeries--but I'm not trans. There's lots of between space.

    Do you look at yourself in the mirror and want to see a female body? What else makes you think you're trans, other than digging wearing a dress like thousands of gay, male faeries do ?

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    One question: what do you think it means to be trans? ... see if you can describe it.
     
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  17. SWAGboy

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    Changing your body to the other gende,r undergoing hormoens and surgeries and sutff

    Some transsexuals don't have surgery though
     
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    Hmmm... While that sounds like a technically correct definition of transsexual, it seems like there's something essential missing, and just "trans" (sometimes written as "trans*") tends to be something broader.... It's more complex than that.... For example, I wouldn't consider David Reimer to be transsexual, even though his body was surgically altered to be a girl's body. (I am not going to discuss the reasons he was reassigned, as they tend to cause threads to get locked.) Suffice it to say, he was born a boy, with a boy's mind, and even after the surgeries (and later hormones) he was still a boy. He certainly felt dysphoria, but that was caused by the inappropriate sexual reassignment.