HELPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!! I can't handle my trans truth! I found out I was a transsexual last year after I tried on a Sporty Spice costume.
Yeah. Deep breath. Not the end of the world. Think of it this way. Perhaps you've taken your first steps into a wider world, to quote a Jedi master. More info, see if I can't help.
I can't cope. I am transsexual and it is rocking my world. I NEED HELPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!! ---------- Post added 16th Sep 2013 at 09:42 PM ---------- I am not a troll, please don't be so horrid. I am a mtf transsexual that can't handle being transsex.
... ... Deep breath. Come on. Are you even serious? What's seriously so bad about being trans*? I'm trans*. Make it out okay. You'll be fine. Again, deep breath. Talk it out. What makes you think you're trans*? Besides the dress. Describe what made you come to that conclusion.
I just feel like crying, I found out a year ago. I don't wqant to be trans but I can't help who I am. I need help, I am super duper majorly serious!!!!!!!!!! I need help, I am trans, I need help, helppppppppp!! I am trans and I am in need of help, I need helpppppppp
Lol, thank you. Your humour has amused me in my hour of pain! ---------- Post added 16th Sep 2013 at 11:09 PM ---------- I have had thoughts that I was transsex since I tried on a Sporty Spice costume last year. I get images in my head of the skin peeling off of my penis or of it being bitten by a dead. Sometimes I get a feeling that it is 'gone' I am into feminine things e.g. rihanna and I used to do zumba (not sure if this counts as a reason) I think I might have brain/body mismatch and it is driving me insane
(hey - I wasn't sure if your initial post was serious or not ... but I see it is !) what you are ... and what you want to be ... need to align somehow. it sounds like you are unhappy and torn, dare I ask if you have talked things through with a counsellor/therapist or anything ? (*hug*)
I have spoken to counsellors and therapists and been bounced between services till I was sick of it so no I have no counsellor at the moment and my trans truth is tearing me apart. I NEED HELPPPPPPPPP!!!!
I think that you need to take a deep breath and calm down. You are not going to accomplish anything right now if you are this desperate. Before this, did you have any feelings of being transgender?
Okay, you've mentioned things like visions of your dick's skin peeling off.. Which leads me to a question most trans* people have to answer, anyway: Would you rather have your dick off and completely taken away? What would your reaction be to waking up with no dick? Okay, that was kinda 2 questions... kinda in one..
Nothing wrong with being trans. What's the problem? Or are you confused because you got off on the cross dressing? Hey, I like to dress genderfuck drag, like radical faeries--but I'm not trans. There's lots of between space. Do you look at yourself in the mirror and want to see a female body? What else makes you think you're trans, other than digging wearing a dress like thousands of gay, male faeries do ? ---------- Post added 16th Sep 2013 at 07:30 PM ---------- One question: what do you think it means to be trans? ... see if you can describe it.
Changing your body to the other gende,r undergoing hormoens and surgeries and sutff Some transsexuals don't have surgery though
Hmmm... While that sounds like a technically correct definition of transsexual, it seems like there's something essential missing, and just "trans" (sometimes written as "trans*") tends to be something broader.... It's more complex than that.... For example, I wouldn't consider David Reimer to be transsexual, even though his body was surgically altered to be a girl's body. (I am not going to discuss the reasons he was reassigned, as they tend to cause threads to get locked.) Suffice it to say, he was born a boy, with a boy's mind, and even after the surgeries (and later hormones) he was still a boy. He certainly felt dysphoria, but that was caused by the inappropriate sexual reassignment.