Homecoming and dancing/Ftm

A sock can be good, or if you want it to feel more realistic, I've always heard of putting really thick hair gel in a doubled up condom

 

Look I'm worrying about almost the same thing. I don't like grinding, twerking, etc. on me. I would politely say no thank you. I think it would be okay. If they get mad it you it doesn't matter. If you want to however you need to just go along with it.

 

I see the problem. Girls at my hs do it the same way, along with the gas pedal and red nosing. Ugh it's horrible but if they want to feel it then they should just ask some other guy. It's okay if they get mad at you. Someone probably won't mind.

 

Trust me if you know what's best for your virginity (this doesn't really pertain to it but...), don't do it.

 

Check local health clinics. They'll often have free condoms. Or see if you can ask an older friend to get some for you. If you're worried about it popping, add MORE condoms! AND put it in a sock!

Honestly, condoms are pretty damn durable. Unless the girls you go to school with put pins on their asses, or are cacti, you'll probably be fine.

 

I know this is kinda late for the dance you were posting about, but at 16, I'd say it's a pretty safe guess that you're going to have more dances coming up. Instead of a condom, since you said buying those would frustrate your dysphoria, what about those long skinny balloons (like they use for balloon animals) and fill with a bit of sand until it's about 4-6 inches long, and about an inch or so in diameter, then tie it off. Won't recreate the feeling if they have their hand directly on it (the rubbery texture won't be the same as smooth skin), but a couple layers of clothing (you know, underwear and pants) would likely make it work (Make sure to wear briefs to help hold it in the right position) Lots of stress balls are made in a similar fashion, and those can take some serious abuse from people's squeezing.

One other possible trick if you are just wanting the appearance, and aren't so concerned about someone getting up close to it, wear pants that have pockets that end around the appropriate area, and drop a roll of quarters in there. They won't have the consistency of the real thing if someone were to touch it, but if you were just walking around, it'll generally look about right. The bonus of this method, if you get stranded, you've got a $10 emergency fund on you.

 

Well, that's kinda why I was suggesting sand in a balloon. If you've ever felt one of those stress balls, that's actually about the same consistency as a semi-erect penis. If you had something that felt like you were fully erect, there would be a few problems. First, it'd likely become uncomfortable quickly. Even those born with the part find it uncomfortable if it's up too long. Second, it's not likely to look or feel natural, as healthy guys aren't permenently erect, even if it sometimes seems that way. Most of the time it's only up for a few minutes unless it's being stimulated. (stimulation doesn't have to be physical) And, if you go with something too stiff, it's not going to feel natural at all, because even when a penis is erect, it has some give to it, primarily so one doesn't become injured.

 

I hear ya. Sometimes I wish I could trade ya.