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How to ask a girl to homecoming

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by MrSmooth, Sep 28, 2013.

  1. MrSmooth

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    I'm ftm transgender and I really like this girl and I want to ask her to the dance, She's really sweet and understanding of my situation, But I'm really shy I also have her number
     
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    Keep calm, be relaxed, take a few deep breaths and jump in. Try to start a conversation first. Be casual and when you feel like you've warmed up, pop the question. If you're too shy, ask a friend to pop the question for you or text her if possible. Texting might make things easier (idk).
     
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    I was thinking about texting her and asking, But yea Ill just keep calm
     
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    A lady never tells ;)
    This might be a HORRIBLY offensive answer, but girls love spontaneity. Ask the question, but don't be an idiot about it. Get creative.
     
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    Well she goes to a different school that's why
     
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    oh... Then, yeah. Text the cutie!
     
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    That's what I'll do then know I have to figure out what to say
     
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    You could say something like "Hey ______ I was wondering if you wanted to go homecoming with me?" or "Do you want to go to homecoming as my date?"
     
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    That's what I plan on doing, She's a sweetheart but I' m still scared alittle
     
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    You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Basically, just yolo the hell out of the situation.
     
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    Lol you right I feel you, You only live once