Hi I'm a Male assigned, genderqueer, who would like to look more androgynous... to the point of almost confusing people. lol The thing is a don't want to wear dresses or make-up. In my wardrobe at the moment I have a lot of dark colours and bright colours. I also have two pairs of skinny jeans (one green-blue, one light beige) when in public and regular jeans when doing yard work. Right now I wear purple skate shoes because I like the skate shoe style and have wide feet. To give you an idea of what I look like (as I don't want to post pictures). I have olive toned skin, a big nose, naturally long eyelashes, puffy lips, dark brown hair (above the ears in length), 5' 9'' tall, and a 34'' waist. Based on all this how could I change parts of my style to look more androgynous, but still flattering to my appearance? Such as hair style. I feel like my clothing is pretty androgynous, but it could possibly be adjusted too. Anything else I could change? Thanks for any help, beautiful people! :icon_bigg ---------- Post added 26th Oct 2013 at 10:38 PM ---------- I should add that I already wear nail polish.
Ai would try growing out your hair, and getting above the brow bangs. Also, I would recommend shaping your eyebrows...this is actually easy to do yourself if you get a good pair of tweezers/scissors and find a chart online. You may even try dyeing your hair. As a general rule, blonde is a feminizing color. You could also practice your voice and mannerisms to adopt more feminine patterns. Also, facial expressions; nor sure how to describe that one, but it goes a loong way in feminization. These are just a few suggestions. It's hard to put words to. To me, along with my naturally androgynous features, I like...I just sorta absorbed the feminine essence. To the point where I have had to retrain myself, and have onlu started passing as a boy again, recently; my post detransition gay boy still generally passed as a girl, and it's taken work to pass as a boy, again.
Thanks for replying! I was thinking this hairstyle: Pixie-cut hairstyle with bangs for a boyish seductive look Shaping my eyebrows would be quite a shock to the folks. lol I have be practicing more feminine body mannerisms, but not much with the voice yet. Maybe I'll look at some vids about facial expressions! Never thought about how hard detransitioning must be.
Yes! Something like that hair would be perfect. I recently cut mine from something very similar, and passed as female constantly, with it. And, hmm, you could just say you accidentally went too thin with your brows after someone suggested a trimming? And, yeahh, truthfully, detransition is more like continuing your transition, just in a whole other direction. Or better yet, an all new transition, altogether.
aww thanks Ruthven. ---------- Post added 28th Oct 2013 at 11:15 PM ---------- Good to know! I'll think it over, thanks so much! ^ ^
If you're comfortable, wearing shirts that are a little tighter/ more decorative can play as feminine.
