Surgery and Size does matter to most women

no it doesn't now get the fuck out of here with your ignorance and please don't make a thread that's just stating an opinion if you don't want to hear anyone else's

 

So why in the world do you bother post on a website for gay folks?

 

i think it matters to SOME people but not all - ok so im not 100% straight but i was with a guy for a year who was shall we say not so blessed and things were fine best relationship i ever had and ive been with a very well endowed guy who was a total ass hole and it lasted 2 months - besides its not how big you are its about what you do with what you got

 

I think if you are only looking for responses from "a real 100% straight woman" and don't want responses from people who are LGBTQ, you might want to find a different site....

And, size isn't everything. Sure, it might be all that matters to some limited portions of the population, but for most people, it's only an all other things being equal situation, and it's quite rare that all other things are equal.

 

Be nice to him people, he's a transguy and you can tell he's going through a lot of fear.

 

You're making the assumption that all phalloplasty surgeries result in small penises, but that is SO far from the truth. I was actually on a site the other day with phalloplasty results and one guy (who requested a large penis) was way larger than most bio guys. Now, if metoidioplasty is the route you want to take, idk what to tell you.

 

Ok, I qualify for that
And no, size doesn't matter. I'm straight and most of my girl friends are straight too and I can assure that I still haven't met one woman for whom the penis size is a requested criterion when it comes about finding a partner.
I've heard women saying that they would like their partner to be smart, funny, good looking, romantic, with long hair, with short hair, with blue eyes, with tattoos, to like hard rock, classical music, cats, rats, with high tolerance to intrusive in laws...and many more crazy things but I have yet to met a woman who says "What does really matter to me is that my partner have a big penis (or even an average penis)".
In fact, I think guys worry far too much about their penis size, because, that's not what makes a great partner, or even a great lover. Being kind, caring, open minded, creative... these are qualities that make a great partner and a great lover, whatever the size of what's in their pants.
So, don't worry too much. If you have these qualities, it really doesn't matter if your have a huge penis, a small penis or even no penis at all, because so far nobody falls in love with a penis, we fall in love with a person.
Take care sweetheart (*hug*), Cécile

 

I'm sure most women would say size doesn't matter. Don't get yourself in over your head with possible misconceptions that will get you more anxious than anything.

 

I know that being transgender causes body dysphoria and that it creates a lot of anxiety, especially when it comes about having sex. However, you should try to keep in mind that, not only transmen but also cisgender men are sometimes having issues with sexuality. For example some men are impotent, others are handicapped, and others are born with a micro-penis. Not all of them give up on love and sexuality because of this. That definitely makes things more difficult for them and I certainly don't deny it can causes anxiety issues, but I think that in a loving couple, it clearly is the kind of issues that can be overcome when both partners care and respect each other and want to come up with a solution.
Honestly, I think that a 2 or 3 each penis can certainly work out just fine (and also, remember that straight sex is not all about vaginal intercourse, in fact plenty of women never have orgasms from penetration but from clitoral stimulation) but if that really bothers you (and your partner) you can add sex toys to your sex life (and that doesn't have to be prosthetics if you're not comfortable with them).
So really, there is plenty of ways to have a nice and fulfilling sex life whatever the size of your penis.
Take care, Cécile

 

Cis guys worry about penis size as well. If anything, your worry over this makes you all the more of an average guy. Also, as a straight girl, I can guarantee that I do not give two shits about penis size. It really doesn't matter. If someone felt it was a reason to break up with you over it, then they're far too sex orientated to make a decent relationship with anyway and you'd be better off without them. It's you as a person which is going to spark and maintain love, not intercourse.

 

Don't worry about it. Unless you plan on becoming a male stripper or something, you can compensate for size with skill. Not all Black men have huge equipment you know, and those who do are usually so into themselves that they don't take the time to make their partner happy. The go big or stay home myth was probably started by a guy who was big to keep other guys feeling inadequate. Being FtM, you would need to have a pump to have an erection, and though you could go for a long time, would it be pleasureable for you? I know this in not a place for "porn" talk, but just Google "Buck Angel", he is trans, and one of the most macho guys around, even though he never had bottom surgery. If he can please his girlfriend, you can too.

 

MrSmooth, if you were to do a general search for this issue, you'd find exactly the results Danica suggested. Women don't really care about penis size, it's just the owner's of the penises that do. Best thing will just to be confident in yourself, and not let it get to you.

 

You know, a girl so shallow that she would break up with a guy because o his penis size would probably not date a transguy in the first place.

I've spent years on women's forums. Majority doesn't care about a penis size at all.