So, as some of you may know I am considering the possibility that I might be somewhat genderfluid, and I enjoy wearing 'women's' clothes. Do you have any recommendations for websites giving advice on how a male can best carry off 'female' clothing?
I'm gender fluid just like you. I love to wear girls cloths, been doing it for a few years and do it more and more. I also love that I'm a guy, I love being a guy and love being with other guys. So, I consider myself a gay male who enjoys both sides of my sexual identity. When I dress in girls cloths I totally become feminine, I feel like a girl and act like a girl. I love how I feel so much. However, I also totally love being a guy and don't see myself as trans. As far as cloths, you should just observe girls, look for cloths and styles that you like. And like me, I buy most of my cloths online. I prefer dress's and skirts and like the preppy girl look. It seems to fit me well. So it's very personal, find a style or styles you like and begin by buying a few outfits you find attractive. You can also google a calculator using "mens to woman's clothing size conversion". This is very helpful to buy the right size to fit your body well. Just have fun with it and love the girl inside of you.
I just had a quick look to see what you meant by preppy girl. Some of those do look interesting. I only have one dress right now. I could get more once I lose some weight. Being feminine is a great feeling. Do you think everyone exhibits characteristics of other gender(s)?
On a different note. Got my first high heel boots today A little small for me maybe, but they might fit better if I loose weight. Oh, and walking in heels is a little tricky, easier than expected, and I think I could grow to like it (from time to time)
You may feel differently after a night out when your feet are aching. But, beauty is pain, so it's totally worth it.
Did you ever see the movie Kinky Boots? I think you would love it. Perhaps you could get a few tips from a drag queen. Just tone down the drag queen make up a bit. Wear a small tiara if at all.
I'll look it up, thanks. To be honest, at this point it is just something I do in my room when I know no family will interrupt, or if I am with my girlfriend. I am not quite ready to try going out in public yet.
try wearing girls jeans then with low heel boots. no one seems to notice when i wear them together at all. they seem to me to fit better too. on the other things if the boots are to tight then u have the wrong size! go up one more size will work. if you are a size 9 boot, then get a womens size 10 instead. enjoy
If I get another pair I'll get a bigger size. I should say 'when'... ---------- Post added 10th Dec 2013 at 11:55 AM ---------- Where can I get boots in my size without paying over the odds for them? I am a UK size 12. I don't just want kinky stuff.
Try Here: Cross Dressing Site... Lots of variation here. There are people all the way from dressing in the privacy of their own homes to those who are truly transgender and are intending to reconcile their feelings and their being and everything in between. However, there are no Magic Bullets. Just like here, some struggle with sorting out their lives for themselves and in a familial context.