I've been questioning my gender a lot lately and have started dressing as a guy again (i did when i was a kid) and i feel really comfortable, but I'm still not sure if I'm making the right choice etc. But mid 2012 I realised I wasn't straight (as a girl) and I had a gf for a long while, so I assumed i was a lesbian, then i realised i also liked guys so i thought i was bi. But now the more I think about it i realise that the reason being with a girl felt so natural was that possibly i had the mindset of a guy, and now that i've started to identify as a guy more i still feel attracted to guys, but cant see myself with them unless im a guy. same goes for being with women. sorry for rambling im really tired, but long story short: is it normal to feel like you can only be with a guy or a girl is if you're a guy (for ftm's)
Well I'm not sure overall but for me this was the case. In fact it was the first step to realising I was trans. I knew I was attracted to women but without going into too much detail, I realised something was wrong in the fact that I was a woman. I actually wanted to be a guy with a woman so yes, I would say it is possible to only see yourself with a girl/guy as a guy if you're ftm.
It's perfectly normal. If that's what you like, then good for you. Do you feel both male and female? If so, you could be genderfluid and be gay for both genders.
I feel quite strongly that I can't be with either unless I myself am a guy, so I've got a lot more thinking to do haha. Thank you guys anyway for the responses.
