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Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by NoExplanation, Jan 10, 2014.

  1. NoExplanation

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    Lately now, I've been questioning my Gender.
    I know I am a boy. I talk like a boy. Look like a boy.
    But deep down, I feel and want to be a girl.
    This has been going on for several weeks now, and it's driving my head into wall just Thinking about it. :bang:
    I need help.
     
  2. BookDragon

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    So when you say you feel you want to be a girl, what do you mean exactly?
     
  3. NoExplanation

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    None of this feels right. It's like someday this is all going to come together, and time will stop.
    A bit of an exaggeration, but there's No Explanation. (Pun not intended)
     
  4. BookDragon

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    Well are you compelled to DO anything, or is it just a feeling that something isn't right?
     
  5. NoExplanation

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    Well I have to do something.
    I've felt this for several weeks now.
     
  6. AlexTheBlogger

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    Hi, NoExplanation. Welcome to EC!

    I can't say that you are trans since you are the only one that can affirm that, but I can try to help.
    Do you feel like a woman now? Can you see yourself as a woman in the future? Do you think you would be happy living and presenting as a woman?
    These are important questions when you are questioning your gender. They helped me a lot when I was questioning and I hope they can help you.

    If you want to, you can contact me on my profile or continue talking here.
    I wish the best for you!
     
  7. Miiaaaaa

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    No-one can tell you who or what you are.
    What I can tell you is that I know the feeling. You say you're a boy, because you look and talk and are one on the outside. But, if you are female inside, you'll eventually want to do something about it. :slight_smile:

    And your pun was so intended. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: