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I go through the final step

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by hailey, Mar 7, 2014.

  1. hailey

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    I go through the final step on Monday,the SRS to become the woman I see myself as.I am going to be happy after 4 years of transitioning.My fiance Monte and sister are going to be there for support.My sister can't wait to meet her new sister saying good bye to the brother she had for the last time.I leave tommorrow morning and ready for it.I am a little nervous.I know I am going to adjust very well with the new vagina.The journey was hard at first,my parents disowned me on the spot and recieved support from the transgendered community in my area.I am lucky to have my sister for support and I am going to thank her in a great way.
     
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    That sounds scary as hell! Good luck!!!
     
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    That sounds fantastic, not scary :slight_smile: Good luck and a big hug for your sister :slight_smile:
     
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    You.are.a.hero!
    Good luck and send a huge hug to your sister and transgendered community in your area for me :wink:
    Much love and best of luck! :slight_smile: Stay golden :slight_smile:
     
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    Good luck!
     
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    good luck
     
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    My sister has always been there for me and I always been there for her.I love her a lot and she looks up to me.This has taught her not to give up on anything.My fiance has been there through everything and we are getting married next year.
     
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    thats great
     
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    Good luck with the surgery. :slight_smile:
    Also, congratulations on the upcoming nuptials. :slight_smile:
     
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    Tommorrow is the final day and I can't wait.Have to be there at 5:00 AM and the SRS happens at 6:00 AM,a 4 hour surgery and there is no going back.Staying at a place right across where the SRS is going to happen.
     
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    :slight_smile: We will keep our fingers crossed for you :slight_smile:
     
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    I am so happy for you! Take good care of yourself in recovery and be sure to follow the after care instructions to heal up quickly.
     
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    Great news is the surgery went well and love,love my new vagina.getting used to it already and a whole new me has come out.I am off of work for 4 weeks and stick in a dialator twice a day for 3 monthes.I am learning very well sitting down when urinating too.My first time urinating,it stung a little bit at first.My sister did get me a very good get well card and I teared up a little bit and a hug,she wrote in it:
    To my new sister,welcome to your reborn new life as a woman.I knew you as my brother and love you still as my sister.I watched you go through pain in the past and you are finally happy.You have a new life now and don't look back.I look up to you now even more,have shown me not to give up on dreams.Hailey,you are the same person still with the great personality now as a woman.You are great to my kids and love them too.
    My fiance Monte knows we can't have sex yet,doctor said within 4 monthes.
     
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    i'm so happy for you. glad to hear your living your dream of womanhood.
     
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    I'm so pleased to hear it all went well!!
     
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    My sister,a couple of her friends and I are going to celebrate on Saturday night on my new life of womanhood.Made reservations at a resturaunt,just us 5.
     
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    I am so happy for you! Congratulations on everything, you are an amazing person and an inspiration (*hug*)
     
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    My sister's friends Allanah,Allie and Nikki supported me through everything too now call me one of the girls.Came over today to visit and did get me gift cards with a card also.Nikki and Allie both got me a Victoria's Secret $100.00 gift card and Allanah got me a gift card from a women's clothing store worth $100.00.My sister has two kids,a son and a daughter and called me Aunt Hailey for the first time today
     
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