I was born male and up until about 2 months ago I was ok being male... but now I keep having these thoughts of liking women in the sense of wanting to BE female but I also love being a guy and im just so confused and stressed out about it. Being gay I can handle but not knowing who I should be I cant handle. I love wearing make up, guyliner and this sparkle lip gloss. I like wearing the female shirts I get from hot topic that show my slight curves that a guy shouldnt have. I love my green army purse.. but then I love my bagging tripp shorts and band teens and heavy duty "kick-ass" boots. I love having a penis but I wish I had breasts that would look amazing in the clothes I pick out. I ront know what to do. I like being both, what am I???
It's entirely possibly to consider yourself neither. How about checking out this list and deciding what seems to fit?
I think I may be bigender or genderfluid (gendergueer) from the definitions the article you linked me. its all just confusing I guess.
or you could be a non-op trans, like me, i love being treated as a girl, i want to look like a girl and have breasts, but i like having a penis and i don't want to get rid of it, and i still consider myself a girl because i don't think our genitals define our gender, i also like a lot of "boy stuff" and "girl stuff" too, and my interests shouldn't define my gender either do you like being referred to as a girl? do you like that people perceive you as a girl? do you feel happier imagining yourself living as a female in the future? i think you could define yourself better than anyone, don't think there is such a thing as "not trans enough" or a "trans standard", you can be who you want to be!
I never thought of it that way. I like the idea of being a boy and a girl. I guess I could be trans. But theres so many labels. I just want a easy thing that I am. Male and female gender. Idk. I over think things easily.
