Hello all, I am very new to the community, and apologize in advance for anything I post that is against a de facto rule. So I was born a male, but recently I've really been wanting to get closer to what I think is called gender fluid. My main problem is that I have a weight problem that I'm currently working on (down 20 lbs!) and I have a very masculine build. I want to work on looking more androgynous. I wear makeup, crossdress occasionally, and have one friend who knows about and will acknowledge my fluidity. To all who have had this problem, any tips / advice? Thank you
I think being genderfluid is more about being/dressing how you feel regardless of the gender stereotypes for the clothing you are wearing. It can't be taught exactly, because everyone looks at it in a unique way.