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Unhappiness With my Gender.

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by StellaLea, Apr 2, 2014.

  1. StellaLea

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    I'm incredibly confused with what I want to be.
    I like girls, and guys. Of all styles. Girly-girls. Boyish-girls.
    Feminine guys, manly men.
    But I'm just not happy in my skin. But sometimes I am happy in my skin, or at least happy with being a girl. One of my first posts on here was that I secretly wish I was a guy. And I've never told anyone in person that.
    I very much so like men as well, so it bugs me a little to like guys and wish I were a guy.
    I'm nearly 17, birthday is approaching rapidly! I find myself dating like a serial-killer. Since my very serious relationship of 6 months ended because the guy I was with didn't like that I liked girls, I've found myself casually with many girls.
    I'm currently very interested in a guy, and he's excepting that I like both men and women. I don't think I'll mention ever that I wish I were a guy to him.
    I don't know if it even makes sense to like both guys and girls and want to change my gender. I'm not guy like in appearance, but I maybe over commentate as much as I can.
    I just don't understand what I want anymore.
    http://i.imgur.com/X5nHstf.jpg
    http://i.imgur.com/JDegbYa.jpg
    http://i.imgur.com/jopkczf.jpg
    I'm entirely uncomfortable with wearing dresses but I did wear one this year to school.
    I'm also wondering if being uncomfortable in my skin could be more literal, and that I'm uncomfortable with my appearance and and weight rather than my genitalia...?
     
  2. earthlvr510

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    im pansexual too and I am in the process of transitioning. Your sexual orientation and your gender are not as connected as you may think. Its all about figuring out you.
     
  3. mab2112

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    Maybe you're gender fluid? Or bigender?