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Is this weird?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by HermioneGaynger, Apr 5, 2014.

  1. Okay so this is going to sound strange and a lot of you probably won't take it seriously but, I really want a penis. My vag just feels so... Awkward and gross and drippy and weird. I feel like it would be more natural to have a penis down there. I don't really mind my boobs. I hate being masculine though. I'm very, very feminine. Does this fall anywhere under the trans spectrum? Is there anyone like me? Maybe it's a fetish thing? Idk.....

    I could have a bit of penis envy. I only feel this way sometimes. Maybe I'm gender fluid?
     
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    Why wouldn't we take that seriously? :slight_smile:

    Thing is, that could be lots of things.

    Absolutely it could have a trans implication, although I'm really not sure what it would be off the top of my head...

    I mean...is it JUST the idea of having a penis that you like?

    Just imagine that you do have one for a moment, can you describe how you feel?
     
  3. I feel sexier. And I identified as trans about a year ago, but realized I liked being feminine and identifying as a woman. I'm thinking it could be more of a fetish based thing. I'm also very attracted to transwomen.
     
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    Well the obvious question that springs to mind is this.

    If it IS just a fetish thing, is that a problem?
    If not, how can you make the most of it?
    If so, how can you deal with it?
     
  5. I don't know. I might start packing, just to determine if it is a fetish thing or something more. Idk at this point. Thanks for responding.
     
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    It's worth a try if it makes you feel more comfortable. :slight_smile: Hope it helps!
     
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    My situation is the exact opposite. I physically want everything else about the opposite sex but my penis, which I'd prefer to keep. (At least that's how I feel when my gender swings female.) So it wouldn't exactly be a straight-up trade here. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    It's not weird. But I don't exactly know how to describe it, and depending on your current situation, there could be a myriad of possibilities which this falls under.

    I, on the other hand, would like to have absolutely nothing that is associated with sex/gender. Call that weird, if you like. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: