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How to buy men's underwear/boxer behind parents back?

Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by xAlexzanderx, Apr 8, 2014.

  1. xAlexzanderx

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    I need to get boxer/ dudes underwear.. Behind my parents back,
    I really want them, and I'm hoping the help my bottom Dysphoria a bit.

    I'm only 14 so I can't drive and I'm not allowed out of the house, alone. :eek::sleep::bang:

    So I need you you guys help(&&&)
     
  2. FireSmoke

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    You're out with your aunt, right? Is she accepting you? If so, you could go out spending time with her and maybe go shopping together :slight_smile:
     
  3. Miiaaaaa

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    Do you have a debit card?
     
  4. xAlexzanderx

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    @miiaaaaa

    No I don't, but I have cash. I was thinking about going out with somebody. But my aunt is the only "truly" accepting one. But she has a lot going on right now.
     
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    Maybe buy them, saying it's for "sleeping" because you think they'd be really comfortable?
     
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    Yeah, maybe try the sleeping excuse, because they do make comfortable pajama shorts.
     
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    Sleeping excuse definitely. :slight_smile:
     
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    It's way more acceptable for bio females to buy male boxers than the opposite way I always believed...

    That or "I got them as a gift" is always a perfect new trans purchase technique even if disingenuous.
     
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    Here is what I did all sneaky-like. First, I started doing my own laundry for about a month or so - giving ample "snoop time." Then, when my mother mostly lost interest in my laundry, I asked to go to the mall and being a teenager and thus, "too cool" to be seen with my mother, I went shopping on my own, made sure to buy a t-shirt or sweater or something from the store I bought my underwear from (to hide them in the bag and present as my big purchase). By the time she did find out, it was a year later and she was too embarrassed to say anything! Ha!

    Btw, American Eagle is a great option and they have "fun" patterned low rise trunks that in a pinch, you can pass off as "boy shorts." XD